Were you teased a lot in elementary/high school? I find a lot of people with this problem were. Something about knowing people didn't like you then translates into you thinking people won't like you now, giving off the "leave me alone" vibes.
I always feel like a social misfit. I know people like me now, but unfortunately, my childhood was filled with so much torture that it made me not care whether or not people want to associate with me. I always had a boyfriend, but there's only 2 girls in my adult life that I would call a friend. Guys, on the other hand, I get along with very well!
Honestly, most people suck anyway. I find groups of girlfriends very hard to deal with. As a teenager, it was because I was the cute new girl in school, and got loads of male attention. As an adult, I give off standoffish vibes. Then again, I don't care if I spend a Saturday night alone! I'm an introvert (most of the time..) and proud!
I was never teased to my face. I went to a very small school, and for the most part, teasing was actually taboo. But I think that going to a small school has something to do with it, because I did not get the practice growing up of conversing often with people that I do not know.
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Were you teased a lot in elementary/high school? I find a lot of people with this problem were. Something about knowing people didn't like you then translates into you thinking people won't like you now, giving off the "leave me alone" vibes.
I always feel like a social misfit. I know people like me now, but unfortunately, my childhood was filled with so much torture that it made me not care whether or not people want to associate with me. I always had a boyfriend, but there's only 2 girls in my adult life that I would call a friend. Guys, on the other hand, I get along with very well!
Honestly, most people suck anyway. I find groups of girlfriends very hard to deal with. As a teenager, it was because I was the cute new girl in school, and got loads of male attention. As an adult, I give off standoffish vibes. Then again, I don't care if I spend a Saturday night alone! I'm an introvert (most of the time..) and proud!
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Yay! Go introverts!
I was never teased to my face. I went to a very small school, and for the most part, teasing was actually taboo. But I think that going to a small school has something to do with it, because I did not get the practice growing up of conversing often with people that I do not know.