Well I can tell you what I do but it does not work in every situation. Every time they answer something ask more questions.
Example:
Speaker:Do you like cats
Person:Yes I love cats
Speaker: have you ever owned any
Person:No
Speaker:Well what do you like the most about them?
Person:That they are so soft
Speaker: I like that about them too, have you ever had any other pets?
Person: Yes I have
Speaker:What were they?
Person:Oh I had 2 dogs, and a few rabbits but I no longer have animals
Speaker:Oh why is that?
Person:Well the rabbits died, and I had to get rid of my dogs when I moved. I am planning on getting another dog soon though. I'm moving into another house. Right now im living in an apartment but me and my girlfriend just had a baby.
See its easy and it makes the person your speaking with feel like your listening. This works for me 90% of the time. However there is always instances where this is going to clearly fail.
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Well I can tell you what I do but it does not work in every situation. Every time they answer something ask more questions.
Example:
Speaker:Do you like cats
Person:Yes I love cats
Speaker: have you ever owned any
Person:No
Speaker:Well what do you like the most about them?
Person:That they are so soft
Speaker: I like that about them too, have you ever had any other pets?
Person: Yes I have
Speaker:What were they?
Person:Oh I had 2 dogs, and a few rabbits but I no longer have animals
Speaker:Oh why is that?
Person:Well the rabbits died, and I had to get rid of my dogs when I moved. I am planning on getting another dog soon though. I'm moving into another house. Right now im living in an apartment but me and my girlfriend just had a baby.
See its easy and it makes the person your speaking with feel like your listening. This works for me 90% of the time. However there is always instances where this is going to clearly fail.