friend who doesnt share similar interests

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  • you shouldn't be so rude about your friend
    people are different, and just because she may not enjoy all the same things you do does not make her "boring". To other people, she might be interesting.
    she was your friend when you didn't have any, and I think you should be grateful for that.
    Try to talk to her about things that interest both of you. You must share some common ground.
    If you still find yourself "bored", just try to spend a bit less time together. don't do anything cruel.
    as for the group that you want to be a part of, you can't force things like friendship. Say hi to them in classes and see what they're like. They may not be all that great.

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    • thanks for replying, i appriciate. i wasn't trying to be rude. i know that everyone is different in an amazing way, maybe i shouldn't have said she was boring and such. well, honestly, besides watching 2 same tv programmes, we have nothing in common really. like she's the opposite, i konw people say opposite attracts, but in this case it doesnt work out. thanks for reminding me to be grateful to having her as my friend, i do feel thankful for that, if it wasnt for her, i would be all alone. i have spoken to everyone in that group in classes before and i have an idea how they are like, they do have something in common, seriously. And i hang out wth them whenever my friend is not here, so yea.... i'm not gonna do anything cruel to my friend, i just wanna advice on how to tell her that i dont wanna hang out wth her anymore but we still can be friends in the nicest way possible, i know how it feels to be "abandoned", so yea... im srry if i sounded rude to u....

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      • it would be mean to ditch her! she was there for you when you had no friends and then your gunna go and chuck her out when you find some new friends? thats just spiteful! maybe you should both join that other friendship group. and then she might make friends with someone else in the group. then your all happy

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