Friend is sooo annoying and brags

My friend is so annoying. One time, he accidently hurt his finger. And he said: "It hurts!" But almost for 2 weeks he complained how it hurted and showed it always and was like "Do you see anything weird?" He keeps doing this with every injury he ever gets. Slipping, burn and minor injurys like that. He brags when he done something good. Or wait wait wait.. When i done something good! We were gonna do a presentation on the body and i did all of it. ALL OF IT. He didnt work at all! He did 1 thing. Put in a picture. 1!!!! This has happened 2 times. And when I was done, he said: "look what i did!" To the teacher. I tried explaining that "Please make him work.." And he brags about all the stuff he gets by his mom and one time, he asked: "What grades did you get?" And i said my grades and he bragged how his were better. How couldnt i see it coming!? And he says to everyone if they want to go home to them and one time i came home to him.. MY GOD. BRAG BRAG BRAG BRAG. He showed all his stuff and was like: "Do you have these?" I try to avoid him, trust me. But he sits beside me. He always speaks loud and make noises and i say: Can you be quiet?!. And then he is quiet. But.. Then he tries to turn the blame towards me. After i asked him to be quiet, when i made a little sound he said: "SHUT UP! WHY DO YOU HAVE TO MAKE NOISES???" And my teacher always make me work with him. And he has a bad breath. It burns like acid.. Help me..

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  • Why do you call him your friend?

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    • Because he always see me as one.

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      • If you can’t stand him, hanging around him will only annoy you more and lead him on thinking he has a friend. Best not to fake a friendship and if he’s this annoying, find others you can stand.

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      • That's not a good reason! Just stay away from him and stop seeing him as a friend:; he's not

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      • Hello, my friend.

        Since we're now friends, can you lend me fifty bucks until payday?

        See, that's not how friendship works. More accurate to call him a guy you know who calls himself your friend.

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  • He sounds very immature, needy, and insecure.

    It's a paradox, but people who brag often do it because they actually don't have a very high opinion of themselves. Someone who is emotionally mature and certain of their own value doesn't feel the need to point it out to others, they don't turn into sympathy hounds whenever they suffer some trivial injury, and they don't have a huge need to show off all their stuff. The noisiness fits in with this too. It's just more, "Look at meeee!" which is the result of him feeling that he's too crap a person for anyone to notice if he just gets on with his life in a normal way.

    Him talking about all the stuff his mother buys him is interesting too, since there are some parents who are incapable of giving the time and affection that kids need, and replace that with buying them stuff. So it's possible that his home life is, regardless of what he says, actually pretty shitty.

    Alternatively, he could be the exact opposite: an egotistical little Mommy's boy bitch who genuinely believes the whole frigging world should revolve around him.

    In either case, he sounds like a pain in the backside. If you explain to him clearly and calmly why you find him not the nicest person to hang out with, maybe he'll take that on-board and try to chill and act more reasonably. Don't criticise him as a person, but rather give specific examples of things he does which are difficult for you to accept. In the end, you can't force him to act differently, so if he doesn't attempt to change his behaviour, all you can do is alter your own and do your best to keep your distance.

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    • I forgot to say that, the friend and his mother always bullies the friends brother. And he has 2 mothers that are lesbian and he shares his thoughts about it. "I dont want my mom to be lesbian!!" very worried and stuff like that.

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  • And tell the teacher you don't want to work with him because he always makes you do all the work.

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  • Stop being his friend. He obviously was raised in a situation where everything he did was amazing and was barely punished. He's gonna keep being a brat so just stop before he brings you down more.

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  • He sounds like a hypochondriac.

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