Found true love... too late?

Men like you are a piece of crap. Men 80% of the time get bored with the women they marry. It's people like you that give marriage a bad name. And yes suck it up that you are unhappy. You should have thought of that first before you got married and had children. The fact you even were looking at other women that way is discraceful. Maybe you should leave with that other girl and totally screw over your wife and kids lives. If you do stay out of their lives because apparently maybe they would be all better off without a scumbag like you around.

^ this. I'm glad someone else was repulsed by this mans story as well.

And for your info OP, my man is happy with me. I don't need to be a bitch to him because he is one of the decent men out there. Unlike yourself who can't stick with the family he has.

if you have been married for so long and have 2 kids, is it worth being selfish for?!...plus this might just feel exciting to you because it's a bit of "fresh air" but when thats gone there is no security of it being anything closed to what you have now...

U have kids. Dont ruin their lives by making a mistake that u may or may not regret. Maybe try not seeing this girl or talking to her. Thefeelings will fade

Don't leave an 80% perfect person for 20%, because in the end 20% is all you wind up with. Also growing up with divorced parents sucks.

if she's what you've been waiting for, go for it

There's no such thing as "true love". Love is a choice.

It might just be the thrill of something new. Don't make quick decisions because of passion.

Don't jeopardize your home and family over a ''bit of fresh air''.

And what about working on re-discovering your wife, you might just find back all the reasons why you married her in the first place.

Again, don't take quick decisions.

Raptor, people can't understand unless they have been in this situation. Don't listen to negative comments. You deserve to be happy.

"This other girl completes me as a person". Oh that's funny because that's the same reason you married your wife...don't commit to something if you're not 100% sure or if you have no loyalty in your body. People are so throwaway these days It's hard not being utterly disgusted by these stories

oh man I bet ur husband is soo happy to be married to a piece of work like you Eva! Wow

Ur kids would be hurt if u and ur wife split. Maybe u could be friends with this other girl? 10 years is long time to be married.

Sry if that sounds mean. Hope it helps.

ur right> I should just suck it up and live un happy for the rest of my life. what was I thinking. Thanks for the advice Eva. Ill go back to faking my smile as long as everyone else is happy.

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Depends.. How long have you known this other girl? Maybe you just want something different or found something better then what you have.

You are discusting. You are married and shouldn't even be bothering with other women in the first place. Get over this woman and get back to being with your WIFE.