All of these comments say don't let her back in and I feel I need to argue the opposite. Humans are impulsive and often make mistakes, not to mention cheat. Just because you've been cheated on doesn't mean she "doesn't respect you", since when is holding your sexual organs tight the end all be all of respect? Second chances exist for a reason, and a strict "once a cheater always a cheater" policy doesn't leave room for consideration to the situation which is always important. You feel like forgiving her, she feels like she loves you, maybe she was going through a difficult time and has learned. I think the /most/ vulnerable thing you could do is admit the pain that her cheating causes you and nonetheless forgive her and allow a second chance.
Forgive and Forget?
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All of these comments say don't let her back in and I feel I need to argue the opposite. Humans are impulsive and often make mistakes, not to mention cheat. Just because you've been cheated on doesn't mean she "doesn't respect you", since when is holding your sexual organs tight the end all be all of respect? Second chances exist for a reason, and a strict "once a cheater always a cheater" policy doesn't leave room for consideration to the situation which is always important. You feel like forgiving her, she feels like she loves you, maybe she was going through a difficult time and has learned. I think the /most/ vulnerable thing you could do is admit the pain that her cheating causes you and nonetheless forgive her and allow a second chance.