I caught my wife of 4 years cheating, so I broke it off. About three months later she told me she just made a mistake and wanted to get back together. I gave it a large amount of thought and decided not to, my dad always said "Once a cheater always a cheater." To my delightful surprise I met someone else about 6 months after that and we have been together and happy for 5 years. I know how hard it can be when you love someone and want to forgive them. The cold honest truth is if they cheated on you they never respected you to begin with and no amount of forgiveness will help that. They never will respect you. My advise would be to move on and find someone who loves and respects you. Whatever you do, in the end the best thing you can do for yourself is to forgive her and put her behind you and don't let it cause trust issues. I have seen friends never forgive someone for cheating. Then they ruin the rest of there relationships because they are afraid of the pain. Please I beg you move on and love again. Let yourself trust be venerable and take the risk of being hurt in the end what is life without a little risk.
Forgive and Forget?
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I caught my wife of 4 years cheating, so I broke it off. About three months later she told me she just made a mistake and wanted to get back together. I gave it a large amount of thought and decided not to, my dad always said "Once a cheater always a cheater." To my delightful surprise I met someone else about 6 months after that and we have been together and happy for 5 years. I know how hard it can be when you love someone and want to forgive them. The cold honest truth is if they cheated on you they never respected you to begin with and no amount of forgiveness will help that. They never will respect you. My advise would be to move on and find someone who loves and respects you. Whatever you do, in the end the best thing you can do for yourself is to forgive her and put her behind you and don't let it cause trust issues. I have seen friends never forgive someone for cheating. Then they ruin the rest of there relationships because they are afraid of the pain. Please I beg you move on and love again. Let yourself trust be venerable and take the risk of being hurt in the end what is life without a little risk.