I have had the same experience at the same time a good close friend was going through the same thing in his life, exactly the same situation and we would talk about it every day.
fortunately we finally got past the ordeal with great results and in fact today everyone involved are grown, successful, happy and united.
Starting with me. Before I married I married my high school sweetheart that I met when we were 14 yo. She was the provoker, the teaser and the sexually advanced girl I ever met. We even got together and skipped school to meet at her parents home, all planed by her of course. this was the day we will finally break the ice. Never happened, I was big and she couldn't handle it and that was it. I moved on and she finally married at eighteen and virgin.
12 years later we met again and she was separated and getting divorced and had a beautiful 3 yo daughter. We got together and married a year later.
I raised this little girl like she was my own and my wife and I had a very sexually active sex life. Sometimes I thought my wife was a nymphomaniac. During many years her daughter would walk in on us while having sex, and sometimes we were doing really kinky shit, Toys, Bondage, crazy positions and all over the house. At first I started getting a little annoyed and felt disrespected, feeling like she was trying to cause a disruption in our relation because I was not her real father and her mom would laugh and find it cute.
One day when I come out of the shower I find my wife in an exotic position playing with herself, on purpose to surprise me. I started playing with myself in response to her foreplay. All of a sudden while I'm sitting on the toilet lid but naked stroking a full erection her now 13 yo daughter walks in nonchalant and stands in front of me and says; Oh, excuse me". Her mother cracks up and thinks it's funny and I lost it, I was pissed. Her mother quickly responded by calling her back in the room and tells me to stop yelling at her and understand that it's normal at her age. She starts telling her daughter and I that she was just as curious as her and even worse cause she would even try to touch. After calming me down and getting her embarrassed daughter to listen to her her child hood stories I'm more excited than ever. She said things about her childhood and adolescent days that I haven't ever known about. She than says; look let her get over her curiosity, after all better now than with a stranger. My wife pulls the sheets off me and exposes What has to be the most extreme erection I have ever experienced and tells her to grab it. After very little encouragement she did.
In a way this kind of opened Pandora's box because the curiosity continued but only as long as I acted as if I didn't notice and she would not feel embarrassed it was only look and don't touch. My step daughter and I established an open respectful very confident relation and I became her best friend and mentor. She had more confidence in talking openly with me than anyone else and most of the time her thoughts and curiosity were very surprising and she is by no means confused or naive. This goes to show, don't ever underestimate an adolescents intelligence or limits to there innocence. If you can get to know them well enough to gain complete confidence they will blow your mind and perhaps even teach you something new. I taught her everything she wanted to know and satisfied all her curiosities without the stigma that society labels as perverted. The most important thing I taught her was how to be responsible and make smart decisions. We always encouraged her to stay pure but never prohibited it, only educate her and make her feel confident in being open and honest with her parents. We will only give you good advise and support and look out for her well being and happiness
One thing I close in saying is, the man that she chooses to marry will be the happiest man on earth. She married a great man and was virgin on there honeymoon thanks to daddy.
For step daughters to ask questions about sexuality?
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I have had the same experience at the same time a good close friend was going through the same thing in his life, exactly the same situation and we would talk about it every day.
fortunately we finally got past the ordeal with great results and in fact today everyone involved are grown, successful, happy and united.
Starting with me. Before I married I married my high school sweetheart that I met when we were 14 yo. She was the provoker, the teaser and the sexually advanced girl I ever met. We even got together and skipped school to meet at her parents home, all planed by her of course. this was the day we will finally break the ice. Never happened, I was big and she couldn't handle it and that was it. I moved on and she finally married at eighteen and virgin.
12 years later we met again and she was separated and getting divorced and had a beautiful 3 yo daughter. We got together and married a year later.
I raised this little girl like she was my own and my wife and I had a very sexually active sex life. Sometimes I thought my wife was a nymphomaniac. During many years her daughter would walk in on us while having sex, and sometimes we were doing really kinky shit, Toys, Bondage, crazy positions and all over the house. At first I started getting a little annoyed and felt disrespected, feeling like she was trying to cause a disruption in our relation because I was not her real father and her mom would laugh and find it cute.
One day when I come out of the shower I find my wife in an exotic position playing with herself, on purpose to surprise me. I started playing with myself in response to her foreplay. All of a sudden while I'm sitting on the toilet lid but naked stroking a full erection her now 13 yo daughter walks in nonchalant and stands in front of me and says; Oh, excuse me". Her mother cracks up and thinks it's funny and I lost it, I was pissed. Her mother quickly responded by calling her back in the room and tells me to stop yelling at her and understand that it's normal at her age. She starts telling her daughter and I that she was just as curious as her and even worse cause she would even try to touch. After calming me down and getting her embarrassed daughter to listen to her her child hood stories I'm more excited than ever. She said things about her childhood and adolescent days that I haven't ever known about. She than says; look let her get over her curiosity, after all better now than with a stranger. My wife pulls the sheets off me and exposes What has to be the most extreme erection I have ever experienced and tells her to grab it. After very little encouragement she did.
In a way this kind of opened Pandora's box because the curiosity continued but only as long as I acted as if I didn't notice and she would not feel embarrassed it was only look and don't touch. My step daughter and I established an open respectful very confident relation and I became her best friend and mentor. She had more confidence in talking openly with me than anyone else and most of the time her thoughts and curiosity were very surprising and she is by no means confused or naive. This goes to show, don't ever underestimate an adolescents intelligence or limits to there innocence. If you can get to know them well enough to gain complete confidence they will blow your mind and perhaps even teach you something new. I taught her everything she wanted to know and satisfied all her curiosities without the stigma that society labels as perverted. The most important thing I taught her was how to be responsible and make smart decisions. We always encouraged her to stay pure but never prohibited it, only educate her and make her feel confident in being open and honest with her parents. We will only give you good advise and support and look out for her well being and happiness
One thing I close in saying is, the man that she chooses to marry will be the happiest man on earth. She married a great man and was virgin on there honeymoon thanks to daddy.