I think the first few sentences would have been better suited for her mom (though not that unusual), but then I read ahead and no, it's not normal. Yes, you should tell her mother. Its natural for a child to be curious about sex and puberty, but it isn't normal to want to see your father's junk.
You two need to have a discussion with each other and then sit down and have a talk with her. At best, she has skewed perceptions of healthy sexuality and needs to be guided on what's appropriate. At worst, someone might be abusing her, and you as a parent need to know these things to protect her.
For step daughters to ask questions about sexuality?
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I think the first few sentences would have been better suited for her mom (though not that unusual), but then I read ahead and no, it's not normal. Yes, you should tell her mother. Its natural for a child to be curious about sex and puberty, but it isn't normal to want to see your father's junk.
You two need to have a discussion with each other and then sit down and have a talk with her. At best, she has skewed perceptions of healthy sexuality and needs to be guided on what's appropriate. At worst, someone might be abusing her, and you as a parent need to know these things to protect her.