For men: would you report a female coworker for slapping you on the ass?

If a female coworker slapped you in the ass one day, would you report her, or at least tell her to stop, because it's harassment? If you'd excuse it just because it was just a once off, then let's say that she did it a couple of times. The both of you are also single in this scenario.

No, she's a woman so it's not harassment. It's just an innocent slap 3
No, it's alright whether a man or a woman does it. It's just a cheeky slap 7
No, but only if she was hot. I would report her if she was unattractive 4
No. I'd have a problem with it even though she's hot but I'd let it slide cos theres a chance of sex 3
No, but only because I'd be too afraid of what people would think of me if I did 1
Yes, even though she's hot. It's the principle. Hot women shouldn't be given any special exemptions 2
Yes. It's completely irrelevant whether she's male, female, hot or ugly. It was sexual harassment! 17
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Comments ( 26 )
  • jodi1955

    equal rights, if it is wrong for a man to slap a woman's ass then it is wrong for a woman to slap a mans ass

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  • SkullsNRoses

    If she’s making you uncomfortable report her. As many have already said if the gender roles were reversed no-one would think this was ok.

    You have a right not to be harassed at work.

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    • JellyBeanBandit

      Don't worry, this was just a hypothetical question. I just wanted to see what the public perception on this was.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    I wouldnt snitch on something like that because thats a serious thing these days. She would get fired. So if I'm friendly enough with her for her to spank me im not gonna want to get her fired.

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  • --

    I would complain because if it was a man doing it to a women you know she would be telling.

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  • Nata

    If you want to report it, just report it. You are already aware of the damage it may cause. Just be like hey, I like my job, and don't like my butt being spanked while I am trying to do my job. I am not trying to flirt or date any of the other workers here, and I would appreciate it if I could just do my job without feeling harassed. This is a job, not play time.

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  • litelander8

    I think that it’s situational.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Yes!

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  • bigbudchonga

    Nah, fuck that, it's a swat on the arse. I hate this modern-day bullshit of labelling something like that sexual assault; sexual assault/ harassment should be for serious things, and not manipulated to be weaponised against someone who swatted your bum.

    Think about it realistically, dude. It's such a tiny thing. If someone was to go in and kiss you that would be a bigger thing right? But you wouldn't report them, you would just push them away and ask them not to do it again if you didn't like it. That's how you should handle this.

    In the modern world, with the "morality" we have now, you could probably really fuck over that woman, but don't. A man must judge an action for what it truly is rather than what present-day society believes it to be.

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    • Mammal-lover

      Yea exactly! So many peoples lives are ruined these days over them simply trying to find there mate. Its ridiculous. If someone approaches you and you arnt interested simply tell them so.

      If they continue that's when it becomes harassment

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  • Tommythecaty

    Only if she overlooked my public masturbation without incident.

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  • beats

    so I voted "Yes. It's completely irrelevant whether she's male, female, hot or ugly. It was sexual harassment!", but in reality I've had female coworkers do this to me and I'm pretty fine with it if we're friends. If I didn't know the person, I think I might be offended, though

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  • Mcochik

    Is she good looking?

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  • DIO

    I couldn't care less that it's my butt. But I don't like people touching me anywhere. So I would probably slap her back.

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  • DIO

    I couldn't care less that it's my butt. But I don't like people touching me anywhere. So I would probably slap her back.

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  • Iszzy123

    Me personally I’d give one warning
    You know every one makes mistakes but happens again welp that’s her ass

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  • rocketdave

    I quite like having my bum slapped, if they did it very often I'd ask them if they wanted to do it properly!

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  • RoseIsabella

    I think anyone who sexually harassed another person is more than a skank.

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  • Fugazi,again

    Im a 26yo male and a I was bending down to do something in work the other day and like a 45yo female coworker walked past and tickled my bum crack. It was hilarious

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    • GaelicPotato

      Lol

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  • Mammal-lover

    If a guy slapped my ass it would depend if I liked him or not tbh honest haha. At the very worst I would ask him not to again and see what proceeds before taking it to a manager.

    I knew one guy who kissed a coworker and she very much kissed him back. Next thing he knows hes fired for sexual harassment when all the signs were there that they formed a connection.

    We were all human with desires etc. If a guy makes anh such move I wouldnt report him unless he ignored me telling him not to again. Everyone deserves a chance and we all want love so be so mean about those why try to find it

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    Other - I would say date me or I'm reporting you. I mean only a dumbass would miss that sign of interest.

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    • Nikclaire

      Wtf. So you resort to extortion for dates? That's fucked.

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      • d0esnormalmatter

        It's also "fucked" to smack someone's ass unsolicited. Two fucked makes an unfucked ;)

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      • DIO

        It starts with extortion and end up in jail with a 15 years sentence for rape.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I think whether, or not a guy would report a female coworker for smacking him on the ass would depend of course, and be reliant upon a myriad of different factors.

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