for her to get off on this

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  • Both of you should try Brazilian Jiu Jitsu!
    My boyfriend & I have been together for three years, he does upper body work 5 or 6 days a week with weights, a pull-up bar & the kitchen counter-tops (I'll explain that one if you ask me to)& I mostly focus on lower body work with some weight training, hula & belly dance. He's been taking no-gi grappling & a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu class for a couple years & is currently a blue belt, I'm too shy to roll with strangers but I go to his class, record everything, & he teaches me everything he learns so we can roll at home. It's cardio like you've never experienced, it works EVERYTHING, usually he submits me due to his greater upper body strength & skill level & sometimes I submit him with my greater leg & lower abdominal strength (my guard is exquisite & my guillotine is awesome)... all this & it almost always leads to sex if we haven't exhausted each other!

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    • Oops, haha... You asked if it's normal for a woman to be able to do this & be turned on by it; yes, of course it is!
      Woman & men are built differently & usually, a woman has naturally greater size to her lower body than a man does & can build muscle easily in that region the same way a man can on his upper body. Your wife is clearly aware of this & is excited to make sure you know it, too, by using her assets to her advantage in bed.
      It might be a little odd if she was doing this with the strength of her arms but her thighs....?, sweetheart, breast are great but firm, voluptuous legs are what make a feminine figure, & in no way does her using them make her masculine or even "default dominant", it makes her a woman.

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