Nope. Just someone who would rather NOT go through that again. And that's not to say any woman that has been raped or assaulted is laden with scars and salted wounds. It just means ur most likely gonna have ALOT of coddling to do and patience to have. Its just part of the old adage 'you have to love yourself before someone else can'. If u go into a new relationship all scarred up from a sexual assault I can almost promise you it won't go well. She is gonna put his face on you whenever you touch her. She is gonna remember fear and pain when you kiss her skin. Dumping them is a bit extreme. Its best to have avoided them all together. But yeah. Its insensitive as hell to just throe someone a way once you find out they got assaulted and can't have sex or be intimate because of it.
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You sound like a real stand-up bloke...
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Nope. Just someone who would rather NOT go through that again. And that's not to say any woman that has been raped or assaulted is laden with scars and salted wounds. It just means ur most likely gonna have ALOT of coddling to do and patience to have. Its just part of the old adage 'you have to love yourself before someone else can'. If u go into a new relationship all scarred up from a sexual assault I can almost promise you it won't go well. She is gonna put his face on you whenever you touch her. She is gonna remember fear and pain when you kiss her skin. Dumping them is a bit extreme. Its best to have avoided them all together. But yeah. Its insensitive as hell to just throe someone a way once you find out they got assaulted and can't have sex or be intimate because of it.