I just found out lately that my father was married to someone else and they have a daughter together. I'm his eldest child with the second party. Imagine, I just found out it at age 31! He didn't just cheat on his wife, he also deceived me and my siblings, including my mother.
I still remember how paranoid my father was. He used to accuse my mother even though she was not doing anything. In 1991, she past away. Domestic violence in our home was outrageous. I witnessed my father's behavior.
Now, I know why. I can put all the pieces together. He projected my mother based in his experience or behavior. As a result, we all suffered from his cheating problem.
To men and women: If you cheat, make sure that just torture yourself psychologically, not your kids or partner. Keep it to yourself and deal with your guilt.
For Guys: How many of you cheat?
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I just found out lately that my father was married to someone else and they have a daughter together. I'm his eldest child with the second party. Imagine, I just found out it at age 31! He didn't just cheat on his wife, he also deceived me and my siblings, including my mother.
I still remember how paranoid my father was. He used to accuse my mother even though she was not doing anything. In 1991, she past away. Domestic violence in our home was outrageous. I witnessed my father's behavior.
Now, I know why. I can put all the pieces together. He projected my mother based in his experience or behavior. As a result, we all suffered from his cheating problem.
To men and women: If you cheat, make sure that just torture yourself psychologically, not your kids or partner. Keep it to yourself and deal with your guilt.