For guys - what if your partner refused cunnilingus?

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. I'd offer but if she said no then I'd be like okay then I will take a double.

There are many ways of making love and not everyone enjoys/wants or is tolerant of every possible sex act (+ varies for all/some or none of the time) SO couples have to find what works for them generally and in the moment. That is part of the art and beauty of love making.

And I'll add: this is another reason porn is not sex education.

Don't forget though... sometimes when a woman says 'no' to being eaten out, she may have a good reason.

a "bloody" good reason that is. ;-)

If she's insecure regarding cunnilingus, you should try to let her know that you adore to lick her out, that you enjoy every part of giving her head, that you like the smell, the taste, her reactions, that you totally forget about yourself when you are eating her out as she becomes your whole world and your ultimate pleasure is actually not your pleasure, but hers. After sometime, she'll relax and let you do it. There are some other tips and tricks regarding cunnilingus; you can learn them from Jennifer Dobrowitz and her <a href="http://www.learn2lick.com">Learn2Lick course</a> .

Yes it also happened to me many times. I always like to give excellent cunnilingus to my wife and most of the times she gets huge orgasm by sitting over my face and I drink all her juices and ejaculation.

But when she refuses to receives cunnilingus because of her nervousness of smell and taste due to non-washing of vagina since morning, I feel very frustrated.

I've persuaded two girlfriends in the past to let me do ti and they both grew to like it somewhat. I bet you they've probably had a bad experience, usually one bad experience is enough to put a woman off, like anal for example.

It's happened to me a lot. I seemed to have a habit of attracting women who refused it on principle and weren't prepared to try it as a one-off or even talk about it.

Some of the reasons made sense to them (but not to me). One partner was ashamed of her thighs and didn't want me seeing them close up. There was nothing at all wrong with her thighs and even if there was, trust me, I'm really not concentrating on thighs when I'm going down.

To answer your question, I'm not the kind of person to pester or to guilt someone into doing something. Even if I think she'd enjoy it, it's her decision so I tended to just let it drop.

I'd never split up with someone over it, though. It's something I like a lot and something I'd miss on virtually a daily basis but it's not the only thing I like. In fact, I don't think I've ever broken up with someone because of the way the sex was.