For all of your dreams to come true- and to still be unhappy?

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2 1/2 years ago I wanted college more than anything, I was in a terrible and abusive relationship, and have a crush on a boy who was beyond popular- he was brilliant and fascinating.

Fast forward- Im in college with all A's- I am out of that terrible relationship and MARRIED that boy I had a crush on (its an amazing marriage), I have the dog I've always wanted, I am living in a really nice house with the loving supportive parents I always wanted, I dont have to work right now...

And yet, I am sitting here so zapped of energy and unhappy, that I cant get ANYTHING done right now. How am I STILL unhappy?!

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Based on 34 votes (19 yes)
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  • Peek-a-Boo
    13 years ago

    This is a case of "The grass is always greener on the other side". No matter how much you achieve, you will always think something is missing, and other people have it better.

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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old
    13 years ago

    Start volunteering. You already have enough to make your life easy, now it's time to give a little of yourself back.

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  • LAW13
    13 years ago

    @ skimscambone:

    Wow. Haha. You definitely sound the the kind of person who would have all around negative experiences with most people you interact with. Its no wonder you cant find a woman who's "worthy" of your uh, genius...wait no that's not right... I meant ignorance, hatred, arbitrary gender claims, and apparent stupidity.

    Thanks for the laugh

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  • Jessica17
    13 years ago

    Maybe your lifes to perfect? Trying doing something fun like swimming, hanging out with your friends.

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  • Caps90
    13 years ago

    Nothing is ever going to make you happy all the time! What you are feeling is normal. Do something fun and interesting. Every day for a month name one blessing you have in your life and make sure it is different from any other one you have already said. I did this and it helped me alot! Do something out of the ordinary every day until it becomes a rutine. Often we just need sometype of change and are just bored with the rutine we have... so switch things up! Make life fun and interesting again! :) Good luck, count your blessings, switch things up, and have fun!

    ps. And do something for you, or something that you enjoy and haven't done it in a while.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    Ok seriously be happy with what u have

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    I agree with above poster and I also think u should find a hobby u enjoy. Like painting/ pottery/ photography/ gardening to name just a few. U need to feel fulfilled

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  • matilda10
    13 years ago

    Your so caught up in all the materialistic side of life... As many possesions as you get, it won't make you happy. There is a purpose to life, search... You will know when you find it. You will know the deepest happiness and peace, far greater than your wordly possesions can offer...

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Perhaps you are bored? Try picking up a hobby. My life is brilliant but without a major interest I feel the same as you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Get a hobbie, or perhaps consider children. Good luck with life. :)

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  • jrphotographer
    13 years ago

    Maybe raising a child will make you feel happier.

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