For a lesbian to sometimes imagine a man eating her out/fingering her?

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I started having sex with men at 18 and stopped at 25, when I was sure I wasn't feeling any attraction to them. Since then(from 25 to 28), I've had sex with women and really enjoyed it. Like no question about me being gay. I have loved certain men, though, and wanted to watch two men with each other, which makes me a biromantic, polyamorous lesbian, with a erotic compersion fetish. Fine. But just recently I've found myself flirting with a man I live with, who's attached. I would never want to have sex with him, though, and I'm sure he wants to remain faithful, too, otherwise he would've tried something by now. But sometimes I get the urge to ask if he'd ever just consider eating me out/fingering me. Normal?

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  • Avant-Garde
    8 years ago | pl

    You aren't a lesbian.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago | pl

    If you like women, but you're fantasizing about men, you're not completely lesbian.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago | pl

    I don't think I could ever do lesbian acts. I can barely do some heterosexual acts lol.

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  • ghost0309
    8 years ago | pl

    Actually, I think, I'm compensating for the fact that I have no sexual attraction to men, by fantasizing about him performing the kind of sex lesbians have on me, because I care about him on a romantic, non-sexual level, so it's my brain's way of making the situation work, should it ever go beyond flirting. That's my take, anyway.

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    • VirgilManly
      8 years ago | pl

      Maybe you're not quite as lesbian as you think and you tend to over-analyze. Sometimes an emotion can't be intellectualized but must just be felt and enjoyed.
      Although I could also be completely full of shit. Now there's a thought to ponder.

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