Flirty girls

I'm in highschool and there is a girl I can't stop thinking about no matter how hard I try.I've never told her that though...in fact I try to treat her as if she's just.another girl. she is extremely flirtatious and flirts with everyone even though she says she's "not dating"...but she doesn't flirt with me like she does with other guys.she used to.I'm not sure what that means.one time just to see what she'd do I texted her seeing if she wanted to go to the beach with some friends and she thought I was trying to ask her out and freaked.what should I do with this?

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  • Mabey she is playing hard to get, or whatever girls call that shit. It realy stresses us guy out cause we r confused. Mean of girls to do that.

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  • paintballgunz99

    Nah stay away...girl that flirt with every guy they see are not worth holding onto man...u will always feel like ur losing her

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  • BoredGuy

    she in not interested, focus on some other girl

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  • YBNormal

    Based only on what I read, it sounds like she's not interested in dating you. I say let it go, man.

    The fact that she doesn't seem to want to be with you might make her more attractive to you, but when you find someone that likes you back, you'll forget all about this one.

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  • blah4567

    well u used the word freaked so thats a bit vague. shes probably just not that into you, so forget about it and find another girl. Girls are fickle though so she could change her mind...

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  • bodiewangler

    Sounds like you care a lot more about her than she does about you. I wouldn't bother with her.

    If you insist on finding out, ask her out. If she says no, tell her it was a pleasure meeting her and move the hell on.

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  • What go you mean she freaked? Freaked out as in she was thrilled or appalled?

    I think you are playing cat and mouse with your intentions. If you want to date ask her. If you don't leave her alone.

    That doesn't mean she wants or is ready to date. It means you stop playing games.

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  • bunnyboo22

    Just ask her out but yeah I have the same prob. I can't stop thinking about this guy bitbi told him I liked him and he didn't really do anything bad but when I told him my friend liked him too he almost threw up haha I geuss I must not be tht bad

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  • almostunreadable

    Let it go, just drop it. It is more of your problem that you can't resist her. We all have been through such situations in school. Learn from us :) She's like a junk food in a bad drive thru: nice, spicy and all but in the end all you get is sick.

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  • cmoney

    I live my life by two codes. BBC and BAS. BBC is bitches be crazy and bas is bitches ain't shit...if she is flirting with every one and say you to start dating you will probably be piss off all the time becuase she is flirting with everyone...I say you let it go girls like that are messed up bro

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  • Ihave2try

    I say you ignore her... We love attention and when we don't get it all of a sudden we freak and start liking you!

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  • DanB

    I vote you ask her out.

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  • big.z

    I'm going through the same thing but it seems like mine is a little more into me then yours no offence she always says she likes me And she is always good to go .. Try not talkin to her for a bit like a day or too and she what she does .. Let me know how it works cause I need help too lol

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    • yessss

      I as a girl would go mad even feel depressed if a guy who is into me start avoiding me. I am sure because I felt it over an over for a guy. Even one day he came to me and he would cry for what he have done and saying we should have been together. I said "you lost your chance". But now he has a girl friend and all I am thinking about is him. Even now waiting a call from him. I am soo stupid! But believe me if she has a little interest she would go mad.

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