First time boyfriend
I’m with my first boyfriend been official for about a month. He is so nice and understands me and is okay with taking things slow. I did have my doubts at first with my anxiety but I am just going with the flow. He is such a gentleman not the best looker but obviously the spark is there.
The thing is since getting with him 3 people in my profession have asked me out... obviously I’ve declined them all. One is I won’t lie good looking, I said we can be friends and talk about our job but that’s it. He does keep flirting and I am not responding in any way and it’s not even cringey flirting... but it has got me thinking... what if... what if I’d be better off with someone who has the same line of work as me..my job is one of a kind and it takes a lot of understanding and long hours, even when I keep saying I’ve got a boyfriend I’m happy, he keeps giving me little hints. I do like my boyfriend a lot and I’m loving getting to know him. But is it normal to think like this? The guy who is wanting to take me out and keeps saying it’s a shame I’m not single is completely out of my league but insists I’m everything he’s been looking for, and I won’t lie I never thought someone like him would want to take someone like me out.
Maybe it’s my anxiety making me behave like this.