First time boyfriend

I’m with my first boyfriend been official for about a month. He is so nice and understands me and is okay with taking things slow. I did have my doubts at first with my anxiety but I am just going with the flow. He is such a gentleman not the best looker but obviously the spark is there.

The thing is since getting with him 3 people in my profession have asked me out... obviously I’ve declined them all. One is I won’t lie good looking, I said we can be friends and talk about our job but that’s it. He does keep flirting and I am not responding in any way and it’s not even cringey flirting... but it has got me thinking... what if... what if I’d be better off with someone who has the same line of work as me..my job is one of a kind and it takes a lot of understanding and long hours, even when I keep saying I’ve got a boyfriend I’m happy, he keeps giving me little hints. I do like my boyfriend a lot and I’m loving getting to know him. But is it normal to think like this? The guy who is wanting to take me out and keeps saying it’s a shame I’m not single is completely out of my league but insists I’m everything he’s been looking for, and I won’t lie I never thought someone like him would want to take someone like me out.

Maybe it’s my anxiety making me behave like this.

Is It Normal?
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  • Dude sounds like a douche, don’t give him the satisfaction. If he didn’t want you then, he shouldn’t want you now.

    Stay with your boyfriend. I repeat, DO NOT ENGAGE WITH THE DOUCHE AT WORK.

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  • You sound all over the place you. Idek. I wouldn't date you.

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  • Don't go out with someone in your line of work. It's always boring and claustrophobic in the end. Even more so if you have a really demanding job with long hours. You'll end up wishing you could meet someone outside of work but you probably won't have time because you're always at work and you no longer have social contacts outside of work.

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  • basically you may hate the other guy then you have lost the guy that you actually want, but do what you really want.

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  • He is acting being too needy , its sh:t. Stay away from him . You have Bf .

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  • Don't go with anyone who is pushy, or impatient. What is your line of work?

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  • Fuck who ever has the biggest..........


    Paycheck.

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  • "not the best looker" well aren't you sweet.

    Other guys may just think you are easy, they may just root and boot ya. Could even have a bet going at work! Be careful before you decide to trade ya dude in!

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  • You dont want advice from me because if I were you I'd screw the guy at work a few times and keep my boyfriend. Dont let the boyfriend find out. You can have some kinky fun with it.

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    • I don’t work with him haha

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      • Id fuck the other dude then come home and fuck my boyfriend without taking a shower #savage
        The other guy wont tell he doesnt care that u have a boyfriend

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        • Such a cupid

          Spoofing out arrows at everyone.

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