If you get turned on, that's fine. But you can't be masturbating while holding a child. Kids notice more than you think, you never know what ideas they might get from seeing this or what damage it could do, so best to just not do it.
Rephrase your question and substitute yourself for a male.
"I'm a mall Santa, and I get turned on by children sitting in my lap so I jerk off while working"
I'd guess most people would say that this example is extremely wrong, so it should be no different for a woman.
Why don't you have your husband or boyfriend stimulate you that way when you're alone? You can wait. Part of being an adult is being able to restrain yourself.
But, why take a chance? Babies learn by trying to imitate what they see and hear. Kids notice so much more than we think. By age 1 look at all the things a child has learned.
Whether or not they notice or remember, it's still wrong. If I steal $20 out of your purse and you don't notice, is that somehow less wrong? If a man rapes a woman by giving her a roofie, and she doesn't have any recollection of the event, is it somehow not a crime?
This to me is clearly using a child to aid in her sexual gratification and is wrong. I disagree with people using other people's (especially children's) unconsenting or unknowing bodies for their own sexual pleasure.
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If you get turned on, that's fine. But you can't be masturbating while holding a child. Kids notice more than you think, you never know what ideas they might get from seeing this or what damage it could do, so best to just not do it.
Rephrase your question and substitute yourself for a male.
"I'm a mall Santa, and I get turned on by children sitting in my lap so I jerk off while working"
I'd guess most people would say that this example is extremely wrong, so it should be no different for a woman.
Why don't you have your husband or boyfriend stimulate you that way when you're alone? You can wait. Part of being an adult is being able to restrain yourself.
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I think most people stop breastfeeding before children are aware enough to notice that, don't they?
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Maybe.
But, why take a chance? Babies learn by trying to imitate what they see and hear. Kids notice so much more than we think. By age 1 look at all the things a child has learned.
Whether or not they notice or remember, it's still wrong. If I steal $20 out of your purse and you don't notice, is that somehow less wrong? If a man rapes a woman by giving her a roofie, and she doesn't have any recollection of the event, is it somehow not a crime?
This to me is clearly using a child to aid in her sexual gratification and is wrong. I disagree with people using other people's (especially children's) unconsenting or unknowing bodies for their own sexual pleasure.
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I wasn't arguing that it's right (I'm not really sure how I feel about it), I was just a bit confused by your post. It makes more sense now.