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i love to finger my pussy as i breast feed my kids its a huge turn on for me and breast feeding my kids gets my pussy so wet am i normal
I am a male nurse and have been lucky enough to hear this does happen sometimes. A lot of women like the suckling of their breasts and are turned on. I do think it is abnormal to finger yourself while breast feeding. Maybe wait until the child is fed and then go have your alone time.
This is true.
I am in an age where some former classmates/friends etc. have children, and most of them experience the feeding of their child as a sexual turn-on.
Now, for the fingering part: I'm very sorry, but i don't really think it's all that wrong. Technically, you shouldn't "hide" anything from small children. Neither you going to the toilet nor your genitalia. Now, i understand the usual consensus for children sleeping in their parents bedroom is that sex only happens AFTER the child fell asleep(they will normally not wake up from that, btw), but other sources claim that even active sexuality does not need to be hidden from babies. After all, it's a "natural" thing, not actually something that is not normal. I know our society likes to believe that anything sexual will irreversibly traumatize our children, no matter how young or old...but i can't agree to that.
Now, wether it's actually acceptable or not? I can't really say, but i think it's not totally morally wrong(rather in a grey area) unless you specifically feed the child for the express purpose(that would be abuse).
So hot! And why hide the pleasure you get from your own child? Show them how to receive pleasure themselves!
I am not a woman and I know nothing about kids, breast feeding or having a vagina. Still I am gonna make a guess that this is very far from normal. It even seems kind of like child abuse in my view.
If you get turned on, that's fine. But you can't be masturbating while holding a child. Kids notice more than you think, you never know what ideas they might get from seeing this or what damage it could do, so best to just not do it.
Rephrase your question and substitute yourself for a male.
"I'm a mall Santa, and I get turned on by children sitting in my lap so I jerk off while working"
I'd guess most people would say that this example is extremely wrong, so it should be no different for a woman.
Why don't you have your husband or boyfriend stimulate you that way when you're alone? You can wait. Part of being an adult is being able to restrain yourself.
I think most people stop breastfeeding before children are aware enough to notice that, don't they?
Maybe.
But, why take a chance? Babies learn by trying to imitate what they see and hear. Kids notice so much more than we think. By age 1 look at all the things a child has learned.
Whether or not they notice or remember, it's still wrong. If I steal $20 out of your purse and you don't notice, is that somehow less wrong? If a man rapes a woman by giving her a roofie, and she doesn't have any recollection of the event, is it somehow not a crime?
This to me is clearly using a child to aid in her sexual gratification and is wrong. I disagree with people using other people's (especially children's) unconsenting or unknowing bodies for their own sexual pleasure.
I'm going to say that's fuckin wretched and disgusting....because it is.
Not sure about the fingering,(I am a male) but I know that a lot of women are turned on and even have orgasms while breastfeeding,so that part is normal.As for fingering yourself perhaps you should wait a while so you can have more privacy to do so. I don't see anything wrong in your action tho'.