Fiances sister and husband are both nuts?

Not only is she nuts, but so is his entire family.

Details:
-I'm 25 as is my fiance. We've been together for 6 years.

-His sister is 20 and got married at 18. Her husband is 24. She got engaged 4 months after knowing him and married the day after she got engaged. He's in the military and she doesn't work or go to college nor does she plan to. She didn't have a wedding, just went to a courthouse and got married there.

-They live in Texas and we live in New York.
Now, for the story. Get your popcorn ready!
They invited me to Texas a few mnths ago. It was rare for them to invite us considering she acts like I'm a parasite. We went out to eat at a decent restaurant. So we're eating while her husband is wearing a sleeveless shirt exposing his skull tattoos and all of a sudden, her husband burps loud. He says excuse me and laughs. 5 minutes pass..he does the same and she laughs too. At this point, I feel totally out of place and want to leave. I shake my head and they ask me what's wrong. I decline to answer. Then, without hesitation..he belches so loud that the guy behind out says ,"oh come on". He then stops and we leave.. I'm relieved.

Months pass and we invited them over. so now we're in new york at a slightly upper classed restaurant and he burps! then, he belches loudly and laughs as does she but while hes burping she tells him to stop while shes laughing. More time passes and he does it again and again and says"hold on, watch this" and he belches for 15 seconds straight.. I excuse myself and go to the bathroom being embarrassed.. My fiance joins me in the back of the restaurant and we decide that if he does it once more, we will tell him to stop.

So we get back and now its dessert time. He orders a sundae while we order cake. He's playing with his sundae by shaping it with his spoon like a snowman..He then drinks some soda, turns to his wife and belches in her ear. My fiance tells him to stop. Then, he does it again..So now I'm extremely embarrassed and I tell him to leave the restaurant. I literally said, "You need to grow up. Please leave now" He says I'm a bitch. So, I stand up and tell him "Do you want me to have the waiters assist you? LEAVE." At this point, I don't care that I'm making a scene. He tells me he'll stop burping if I sit down. I tell him to leave once more. He finally leaves as does his wife.

She's waiting outside with him. I get finished paying, go out and she has her hands on her hips. She tells me that was inappropriate and that I need to act more classy. I told her to grow up. Then, he mumbles something at me. I then say, "I don't have time for your immaturity. Why don't you go back to Texas to your free white trash apartment where you belong." They find a taxi..leave the state and she writes a nasty blog about me on her facebook page then deletes me after posting it.
Was this wrong of me? Is any of this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • They are irresponsible and immature, I'm in high school and I'm more mature. If anyone says you're wrong don't believe them. Over the next few years just have fun watching their lives fall apart.

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  • Well that was kindof mean... I mean yeah he being immature and gross, but he just being funny or trying to break the ice. Its his personality, you didnt need to kick him out. They arent nuts, just immature. Your probably higher class, and is more strict. (im not saying that its a bad thing) but they are your family now learn to love them

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  • Ew you were right. They sound trashy. I would have been mortified. A lot of these people saying they were normal to be burping are classless idiots- but since they are family, I'd smooth things over but never go out to eat. Always cook at home or pick dinner up. That is so embarrassing for you.

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  • how can you order him out of the restaurant? you cant do that, you can leave but he can stay,surely. say sorry to the sister and tell her it is rude to belch in public and you were embarressed. make up with them

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  • He sounds like an embarrassing buffoon but you sound like a ridged......

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  • This boor is obviously used to doing this in the mess hall with his military buddies and getting a good laugh. He's too immature and uncultured to know it isn't right in public. An adult would burp with mouth closed into his napkin and excuse himself. A 10 year old does a mouth open belch and is proud of it.

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  • dumb assholes deserve to be sent packing

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  • that's just gross and rude. good job on your part for doing what you did. yes, burping is normal but not all the time like he did and not during a situation like that. they both need to grow up and learn some manners.

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  • Ur right they are gross... U r the host... U had every right too. Screw them

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  • i think you were a bit harsh and over the top. what you said was mean. i agree his behaviour was immature, trashy and embarassing for the rest of the party, but yeah, he is a trashy guy from texas, so you shouldnt have been surprised.

    you still could have gotten the message across if you had worded it nicer.

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  • Bogan alert.

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  • Get a bit cranky there vinegar tits?

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  • You sound really judgemental.

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  • I hope you die due to gas building up in your stomach!You Freak!People burp and fart.So what?
    It's better out than in!
    Get stuffed!

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