Female wants to be male, but not transmale?

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For as long as I can remember I've wanted to be male. Even back before I knew about the trans community. All of my sexual fantasies are of me as a male. On top of that, just recently have I found myself strictly attracted to males only. This could be from my obsession of wanting to be a male, I don't know? But anyway, as much as being a gay guy would set me complete...I just can't do the trans thing. I wouldn't look like a real guy. I wouldn't even be a real guy. And most gays would say no to dating any transman. If I were male at all, I'd want to be born that way. Is it normal for "transgendered" people to feel this way? And I really get upset any time I see gay couples or hear about gay men. As much as I adore them and feel right with them, it's envy. So...all this normal?

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  • elasticband
    13 years ago | pl

    I think that people who end up going through a sex change wish they could just snap their fingers and had been born the other gender. I don't think anyone wants to go through all the pain, confusion, misunderstanding, judgement, surgeries, and all what it involves. I think it is normal.

    It would be even better if you could switch back and forth whenever you wanted to.

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  • TomLikesPizza
    11 years ago | pl

    I think it's normal, and most trans* people wish they had just been born the right sex. But trans* men can look like cis men. Look it up. It's only in the early stages, usually, that a person still looks feminine.

    Generally only bigots or people with a severe issue with "female" organs will not date a trans* man.

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  • Aberrant
    11 years ago | pl

    OMG! Thank you, Lord! I thought I was the only one having this problem! If you ever find an answer, please let me know. I'm 18 and I've been asking myself since I was 12 if this was normal. It would be a great relief to get an answer, normal or not, so I wouldn't have to wonder forever.

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago | pl

      I'm a strait transman and let me tell you, it's so hard to find a strait woman who likes transmen. :/ the good news I have a girlfriend now, so none of that matters. For other transmen I feel for you.

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  • BingoT
    11 years ago | pl

    Look up "Warren FTM" on YouTube.. sorry, I don't remember his user name... It starts with "Silly"... Anyways, he's a gay FTM and discuses such issues.

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