Oh yes I agree. I hate the whole bar-scene.
Getting along with girls, the attraction, and all that, usually comes naturally. And in bars it's all just so...forced.
I met a girl in a library one, she was awesome.
I'll tell her, me and her see eachother atleast a few times a week. She's quite special if you ask me ^^.
I'll be going to the same school aswell soon C:
I can imagine how you'll feel...like you won't be good enough. You don't feel secure about your own sexual abilities thus you think others are better.
Trust me on this though. If you'll find her pleasure, more important then yours, you'll be fine and she'll enjoy it more then you think.
If a girl slept with 40 different dudes (whoring out much?) she probably slept with randomers in bars.
Those people are often selfish simpletons, lasting for not more then 5 minutes fucking only for their goal to fuck.
Now you come in. You want to please her, you want to give her the best time she ever had. And you will.
She's used to selfish men who fuck to cum, but you...you're different. You want to please and, and please her you shall.
She is an incredible person, at least what I know of her so far. You can tell her I said that lol.
I always think about the woman first. It is part of the reason I get turned down. "You're too nice, I need someone not as safe...someone a little more adventurous. But we can still be friends, I really want that" --Story of my life basically. Most women 10-28 prefer a "bad boy" type of guy. I'm a fat nerd that is nice. So the complete opposite what females are attracted to. (I've only met 1 that doesn't like "bad boys" and prefers the safer nerdier guy, and you talk to her often...)
The 40 + girl did it with her co-workers because she was bored, a mechanic to get her car fixed for free, blah blah. She claims she wants a relationship, but i told her as long as her legs are open, she won't find it. She didn't listen. Ohwell. I have better people to spend my time talking to.
If I could give someone the world, I would. Sure I have some different ideas about raising a family...but that doesn't mean I wouldn't give them all everything of me. Its also partly why I'm not actively seeking out a relationship right now. Part of giving my everything is sharing material goods too, and not being able to afford that cruise, or car, or dinner and a movie, or trip to a museum makes me feel ashamed. I guess i want someone I can share my life with, and they can share theirs with me. It goes beyond "just someone there."
Hmm. I wonder. How come you want me to pass everything onto her?
Anyway.
Mollie's type...variates. There's me, and some other people.
I guess me and her are alike that way, we're both open minded and our taste is very wide.
I don't think either me, or she has a certain "type".
Anyway, you sound like a great guy tbh.
I guess we think alike, thinking idealistic about relationships. Wanting to share your life, instead of just having a fling or dating. We move too far, for the other person.
Correct me if I'm wrong here.
We're alike in alot of ways you know, regarding your view on things.
She said she wanted to use your facebook to talk to me, but that I should ask you. I certainly don't want to be bothersome so don't worry about it.
Did you mean that you move far enough that it tends to end up hurting you in the end when the feeling isn't reciprocated? If so, yes.
I'm not sure we agree on everything, but then again I don't know much about you other than what you've recently said. But by the vagueness of your comment, I think we do agree on that.
No, ofcourse we don't. That would be creepy. And yeah, I guess I was being pretty vague.
Don't judge me C:
I feel tired, so I might tend to type things out a little vague.
What I mean is, is that I often get attached before the other person does so.
And I end up getting hurt, because my expectations of relationships lie too high. I want something along the lines of loving eachother, enjoying eachothers company. And never leaving eachothers side again, but I mostly get dissapointed by reality.
See that's the same thing with me. I honestly don't care if she hasn't had sex, but I don't want a slut. I would Rather have a girl that enjoys spending time together without fucking. But on a different note, what if the guy you're with is a Virgin?
Oh yeah. Been there. Lots of times. It sucks. You are a few hours ahead of me, so tired is to be expected haha. I think it is around noon your time when I finally go to bed hahaha.
I stalked you a bit based on her suggestion earlier, we do have quite a bit in common. I think I just live in the wrong country =(.
Why would i judge you? I don't judge people. Silly boy.
YOU CREEPER.
And yeah, we are. It's like 3:13 AM here.
I'm sorta used to talking to Americans, soyeah. I'm used to the timedifference.
It's like, a 6-9 hour difference, depending on where you live C:.
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Oh yes I agree. I hate the whole bar-scene.
Getting along with girls, the attraction, and all that, usually comes naturally. And in bars it's all just so...forced.
I met a girl in a library one, she was awesome.
I'll tell her, me and her see eachother atleast a few times a week. She's quite special if you ask me ^^.
I'll be going to the same school aswell soon C:
I can imagine how you'll feel...like you won't be good enough. You don't feel secure about your own sexual abilities thus you think others are better.
Trust me on this though. If you'll find her pleasure, more important then yours, you'll be fine and she'll enjoy it more then you think.
If a girl slept with 40 different dudes (whoring out much?) she probably slept with randomers in bars.
Those people are often selfish simpletons, lasting for not more then 5 minutes fucking only for their goal to fuck.
Now you come in. You want to please her, you want to give her the best time she ever had. And you will.
She's used to selfish men who fuck to cum, but you...you're different. You want to please and, and please her you shall.
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She is an incredible person, at least what I know of her so far. You can tell her I said that lol.
I always think about the woman first. It is part of the reason I get turned down. "You're too nice, I need someone not as safe...someone a little more adventurous. But we can still be friends, I really want that" --Story of my life basically. Most women 10-28 prefer a "bad boy" type of guy. I'm a fat nerd that is nice. So the complete opposite what females are attracted to. (I've only met 1 that doesn't like "bad boys" and prefers the safer nerdier guy, and you talk to her often...)
The 40 + girl did it with her co-workers because she was bored, a mechanic to get her car fixed for free, blah blah. She claims she wants a relationship, but i told her as long as her legs are open, she won't find it. She didn't listen. Ohwell. I have better people to spend my time talking to.
If I could give someone the world, I would. Sure I have some different ideas about raising a family...but that doesn't mean I wouldn't give them all everything of me. Its also partly why I'm not actively seeking out a relationship right now. Part of giving my everything is sharing material goods too, and not being able to afford that cruise, or car, or dinner and a movie, or trip to a museum makes me feel ashamed. I guess i want someone I can share my life with, and they can share theirs with me. It goes beyond "just someone there."
lol you can tell her all that too.
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Hmm. I wonder. How come you want me to pass everything onto her?
Anyway.
Mollie's type...variates. There's me, and some other people.
I guess me and her are alike that way, we're both open minded and our taste is very wide.
I don't think either me, or she has a certain "type".
Anyway, you sound like a great guy tbh.
I guess we think alike, thinking idealistic about relationships. Wanting to share your life, instead of just having a fling or dating. We move too far, for the other person.
Correct me if I'm wrong here.
We're alike in alot of ways you know, regarding your view on things.
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She said she wanted to use your facebook to talk to me, but that I should ask you. I certainly don't want to be bothersome so don't worry about it.
Did you mean that you move far enough that it tends to end up hurting you in the end when the feeling isn't reciprocated? If so, yes.
I'm not sure we agree on everything, but then again I don't know much about you other than what you've recently said. But by the vagueness of your comment, I think we do agree on that.
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No, ofcourse we don't. That would be creepy. And yeah, I guess I was being pretty vague.
Don't judge me C:
I feel tired, so I might tend to type things out a little vague.
What I mean is, is that I often get attached before the other person does so.
And I end up getting hurt, because my expectations of relationships lie too high. I want something along the lines of loving eachother, enjoying eachothers company. And never leaving eachothers side again, but I mostly get dissapointed by reality.
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See that's the same thing with me. I honestly don't care if she hasn't had sex, but I don't want a slut. I would Rather have a girl that enjoys spending time together without fucking. But on a different note, what if the guy you're with is a Virgin?
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Oh wow. I never expected to comment here again.
Gender shouldn't matter. It's the same nonetheless.
Oh yeah. Been there. Lots of times. It sucks. You are a few hours ahead of me, so tired is to be expected haha. I think it is around noon your time when I finally go to bed hahaha.
I stalked you a bit based on her suggestion earlier, we do have quite a bit in common. I think I just live in the wrong country =(.
Why would i judge you? I don't judge people. Silly boy.
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YOU CREEPER.
And yeah, we are. It's like 3:13 AM here.
I'm sorta used to talking to Americans, soyeah. I'm used to the timedifference.
It's like, a 6-9 hour difference, depending on where you live C:.