Female virginity - turn on or turn off?

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  • Err... why? What is so different about a women after she has had sex? Or a man for that matter? I could understand the novelty of being the first person somebody has has with, that is very hot. But to genuinely lose interest in a person because they have had sex with multiple people before... that is odd to me. Care to enlighten me?

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    • It is an experience issue for me. I'm not very experienced, and I expect the person I'm with to want to be curious about things sexually. Partly because it would allow me to explore them, and allow them to explore me so we both learn what feels good and doesn't together. Not someone who already knows what they like. It also has something to do with expectations. That one person that rocked their world...I wouldn't even remotely be capable of measuring up to that. And then it comes down to size. If they've been with a vast number of people, they'll have a specific size in mind they want. Again, I know I don't add up in that department.

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      • Wow, that's actually very insightful. I'd say I agree with you that discovering your partner as they discover you sounds amazing.

        But as for size, it really isn't a big deal. Sure, the minority of members that happen to be large may physically be a bit more satisfying to some women (up to a certain point that varies woman to woman). But great sex is not all about physical pleasure. Society has made the idea of having a large member FAR overrated. I recommend this article:

        http://www.sexpertslounge.com/2012/07/08/the-components-of-magnificent-sex/

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