Ah yes, the world renowned “stop crying, you have no reason to” method of teaching people how to react properly. That’ll learn em, that’ll learn em real good.
they need to make a conscious effort at some point to exercise self control to improve their own lives & dispositions and not appear like a complete mess to the world
“you can only teach people so much” isn’t really applicable in a situation where you’re making zero effort to teach somebody literally anything. That’s just an unironic use of the “we’ve tried nothing and we’re all out of ideas” line from The Simpsons.
We’re talking about an actual child here. A fucking 7 year old should not be expected to have the ability to emotionally develop on their own with zero input from an adult.
"op is mid 20s not 7" No, but she was 7 when her teacher yelled at her. She was experiencing stomach pain and her teacher sent her to detention for making noise. Do you seriously expect a 2nd grader to not make noise when they're in pain?
Things that happen to you as child have an impact. Seemingly innocuous things can mess you up for life. She wasn't complaining about something that happened several years ago, she was saying that that's when she thinks the problem started.
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Ah yes, the world renowned “stop crying, you have no reason to” method of teaching people how to react properly. That’ll learn em, that’ll learn em real good.
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you can only teach people so much
they need to make a conscious effort at some point to exercise self control to improve their own lives & dispositions and not appear like a complete mess to the world
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“you can only teach people so much” isn’t really applicable in a situation where you’re making zero effort to teach somebody literally anything. That’s just an unironic use of the “we’ve tried nothing and we’re all out of ideas” line from The Simpsons.
We’re talking about an actual child here. A fucking 7 year old should not be expected to have the ability to emotionally develop on their own with zero input from an adult.
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op is mid 20s not 7
youre right im bein a jackass cause its the internet and i can
but what shinin examples are you teachin the world?
i dont see any lessons or proposed solutions from you all i see is someone advocatin uncontrolled blubberin over havin feeeeeeelings
i also dont see op want to make any effort to improve they just wanna complain and have someone to blame
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"op is mid 20s not 7" No, but she was 7 when her teacher yelled at her. She was experiencing stomach pain and her teacher sent her to detention for making noise. Do you seriously expect a 2nd grader to not make noise when they're in pain?
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i dont expect much out of a 7 year old
i do expect a mid 20 year old to git the fuck over what happened at 7 and move on with life
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Things that happen to you as child have an impact. Seemingly innocuous things can mess you up for life. She wasn't complaining about something that happened several years ago, she was saying that that's when she thinks the problem started.