Female here, had sex for the first time in my life with a female

Ugh idk what to say really...I was at a club not so long ago, things got heated, I thought why not? Went back to hers for a couple hrs. I was tipsy a bit...I did actually really like it, so now I just feel so weird.
I have never even had sex with men, only kissed a couple in my life.
I dont know, I guess I am non virgin in a way? I feel weird because now I really do think I'm gay as I also like being around certain females but having a relationship with one would be scary and hard to find like that legit connection. I dont know how to tell my family I'm 100%sure I like females. I guess I'll confess when or if I find someone..

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  • What rose said, just be patient figure it out

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  • You don't have to rush to define yourself.

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  • *waves pride flag*

    Do you live in an area that's accepting of LGBT+ people? Same for you family?

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  • Welcome to the world of labeling your sexuality.

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  • I'm not a big fan of labels. Just be yourself and don't worry about what other people think of you.

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  • just have fun. i’m a guy. if i was a girl i would have been a lesbian from day 1. love pussy

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  • There's nothing wrong with exploring options, I dated 3 guys none worked out due to abusive relations, I was out and met a girl, got to chatting and knowing each other, she made a 'move' on me I did not refuse her kiss. Life is great, I don't dislike males but having sex with another female in my opinion is awesome.

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  • Try sex with a guy. Then make your conclusions. You women are pretty flexible when it comes to sexuality, men are not so flexible to it.

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    • Lloyd I've had sex with guys why they insist of having anal is way beyond me. I'm quite flexible but don't keep asking, when one says NO it means NO.

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    • I don't think OP needs to try having sex with a man to determine if she's gay or not.

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    • Men are gross not to mention useless at sex

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      • Then you are a lesbian then if you think that. To that end why even make the post about not being 100% if you wouldnt even try it?

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