Feelings for a teacher..?

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I’m hi... this is my first time writing on here..?
Well I have feeling for my teacher, let’s just get that right out of the way, every time we make eye contact, my heart flutters like crazy, and when he smiles at me, god I can’t handle that... I’ve read a lot of places about how is okay and normal, but that could just be.. I’m not sure, I would feel more confident having someone actually tell ME something and not just other people’s comments on other people’s things. I just need a clarification from a person, is this.. okay? Is it okay to fantasize about him? To maybe even “flirt”? (And by flirt I mean just smiling, cause I’m so socially awkward, but possibly trying more in the future than just smiling?) (I’m female if that needs any clarification)
So, Is It Normal...?

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  • Grunewald
    4 years ago

    Hi, I'm an English/Religious Studies teacher. I've had students who've had crushes on me. There's normally at least one in every school year I teach, so it's normal. You can spot them a mile away. There was one undergrad student who turned up for his 1-to-1 speaking exam with me dressed in a glittery black evening shirt, reeking of aftershave, with his hair beautifully coiffed. He was so nervous he could hardly speak.

    When they flirt it's sometimes awkward, sometimes funny, sometimes a bit sad because you know how vulnerable they are and how hopeless their dreams are, and how badly their heart could potentially break over you, but still, it's always nice to know you're appreciated. I don't make a point of striking up conversations with them, but I don't shut them down either (after all, there are enough aspects of being a teacher that get you down and stress you out; you've got to allow yourself to experience the heartwarming things.). I don't entertain long email exchanges even if they try; and if we accidentally end up alone in a classroom together I don't hang around any longer than necessary. Why play with their emotions?

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    • Imnotokay
      4 years ago

      Thank you so much for the advice :)

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  • d0esnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Yes it's normal. Idk why you feel a stigma about it. Enjoy that crush and fantasize him ramming into you and cumming in your mouth mmmmmm. If it ain't legal now stay in touch and make sure that you tap that. Don't think too hard mate go for what you want sexually with no apologies!

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    • Imnotokay
      4 years ago

      Thank you so much 😊really boosting up my confidence!

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      • d0esnormalmatter
        4 years ago

        Hey man everyone could use some more of that. Especially sexually.

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  • Jennifer21
    4 years ago

    It’s very normal to have those feelings, and yes, it’s okay!

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  • Toledorwb
    4 years ago

    There are many pornos that start out like this. Get on your knees and earn that A

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  • MrsEdGein
    4 years ago

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wydPIAxuXdw

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  • Mammal-lover
    4 years ago

    This reminds me of my crush on my old boss. Whew I wanted him baaadly

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  • Iszzy123
    4 years ago

    Well if you can cook make him some food he might just put a ring on it ;)

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  • Clunk42
    4 years ago

    Well, whether it's okay or not depends upon the ages of the two parties involved. It also depends upon whether or not one of the parties is married. I need that information to be able to properly respond.

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    • Imnotokay
      4 years ago

      He is currently not married, (unsure if he has a gf, but I don’t think so) our age gap is 8yrs.
      (Ty so much)

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      • Clunk42
        4 years ago

        I am still missing the ages of the people. If you're both above 18, then it's fine. If not, that's a problem.

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