Kill with kindness. Act as if whatever they did to you did not leave a lasting impression and that you are perfectly fine without them in your away from work life. I’ve done this before and it actually puts the other person in an uncomfortable spot. Don’t show weakness or shyness or any type of way when they’re around you in the work area. Just act as if you’ve moved on with your life. It will drive them crazy and most likely they will think to themselves that they didn’t win. By you switching departments and taking less money because of them working in the same field as you shows that you can be a pushover and easily manipulated. Self worth my friend. Stay where you are and put them in the uncomfortable position. Maybe they will be the ones finding it awkward at work and will ask to relocate to a different position
This is the best advice I've gotten so far. Thank you. I've done this before and they definitely took notice. I'll try getting into this mindset again and see what happens. Shes been messaging my mom massive paragraphs trying to meet with me and apologize and I'm not having any of it.
Good! Stick to your guns and don’t show any type of weakness. These kind of people thrive on it and will try to wear you down. Keep being strong. Sometimes not saying anything at all and playing things off like they don’t bother you work stronger than words :)
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Kill with kindness. Act as if whatever they did to you did not leave a lasting impression and that you are perfectly fine without them in your away from work life. I’ve done this before and it actually puts the other person in an uncomfortable spot. Don’t show weakness or shyness or any type of way when they’re around you in the work area. Just act as if you’ve moved on with your life. It will drive them crazy and most likely they will think to themselves that they didn’t win. By you switching departments and taking less money because of them working in the same field as you shows that you can be a pushover and easily manipulated. Self worth my friend. Stay where you are and put them in the uncomfortable position. Maybe they will be the ones finding it awkward at work and will ask to relocate to a different position
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This is the best advice I've gotten so far. Thank you. I've done this before and they definitely took notice. I'll try getting into this mindset again and see what happens. Shes been messaging my mom massive paragraphs trying to meet with me and apologize and I'm not having any of it.
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I’m so glad I could help in some way!
Good! Stick to your guns and don’t show any type of weakness. These kind of people thrive on it and will try to wear you down. Keep being strong. Sometimes not saying anything at all and playing things off like they don’t bother you work stronger than words :)