Feeling of being lost or not belonging in this world

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First off I have to state that I have never gotten on a site before and posted in such a manner as this.

I guess my story is a lost and confusing one, I am what many people may call a wall flower or socially awkward; due to my lack of social interaction with others. I do not consider myself a bad person or even highly introverted person, I really have a interest to interact with other people and have good time, but when I do try to speak out and mingle with others, its like I have this negative aura around my body that makes people see me as a piece of garbage; that is not worth a second of their time. Now I know thats a horrible and negative way of putting things, and this only comes to me after a long time of trying to be anything but a wall flower, people are just not interested in me at all, and do not even pay to attention to me. I have to say that its hard for me to make friends, and those that do become my friends, tend to lose contact after a few months, with the exception of a few good friends that I do have. I am lost person, I walk this earth, seen the world as wonderful, vast, beautiful place with a vast amount of life upon it, yet I walk this world as a out sider looking in, wondering why I am here; and not there, what is wrong with me I say, why can I not be like everyone else and live a life walking a path knowing where I am going. All the things I have tried to get inside and be like you, I even selected a path in college to walk and got my degree, even two to try and be like everyone else, yet my whole college life I was out sider sitting on the side of others never aloud to exist with them or able to get along. Only those that could walk both inside and out would talk to me, or show any sign of my existence. Now my days are done, I am doomed to walk alone outside looking in, dreaming, hoping, that one day I can be like them and walk around confident and happy that I have a place in life, that I exist as something more than a mere shadow in the corner of a person eye, a worthless speck dust that inhabits this planet only to contribute nothing to it.
I do not know what to do, some days I really feel like I am just a shadow that is unseen till some one is needed to blame or push around, after years of walking around being nothing to anyone except a negative, thats all that remains of my existence is the negative and its hard to live in this emotional distraught existence. Is it normal to feel this way?

I am really sorry for writing so much, I didn't mean waste peoples time.

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  • Flumeghost
    13 years ago

    I'm that way too, I feel that I have a larger purpose in life. That I'm not meant to lead a normal life, yet I think I am. I want to do something that exceeds the boundaries of normal, I want to save the world or do something.

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  • Tay13
    13 years ago

    I love this "yet my whole college life I was out sider sitting on the side of others never aloud to exist with them or able to get along. Only those that could walk both inside and out would talk to me, or show any sign of my existence." you showed such a good way of demonstrating how I feel. My thoughts are I am just not a very socially involved, and the only people who I ever relate to who those who are having a period of the same feelings. I dont dislike socializing or anything of the such, just its hard for me to be as involved as others. I wish someone had an answer for me, but at least I can tell you your not the only one.

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  • Angryblackguy
    13 years ago

    Trust me ur not alone sometimes I feel the same way.

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  • RyanKeepsPythons
    10 years ago

    I think that people thinking themselves as socially awkward, pitifully self depressed losers just may be a stereotype of this site, the Internet, and basements everywhere. Maybe you're intentionally screwing up, since you aren't learning to stop giving a fuck. Seriously, this is the kind of attitude that gives you a "negative aura."

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  • misseylolemis
    13 years ago

    I feel the same as you do

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  • Faitafull
    13 years ago

    I think most people feel this way, at least once in their life. I feel the same as you do.
    I do know though that God has a plan for us all. We just need to adventure forth and find it. your not alone!

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  • timebobbu
    13 years ago

    wanting to be different, evolution, same thing.

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  • Ribbit.
    13 years ago

    Yeah I get this alot.

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