Feeling depressed and inferior around other females

Around other females, I often end up noting their body and getting depressed over what they have that I don't- smaller waist, fuller figure, bigger breasts/hips, etc. Around males and females that are younger than me, I'm fine, but when I'm with females that are either the same age or older than me I get depressed. I don't know what's actually making me this jealous. Is it normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • Just think of it this way... And I'm not just saying this... Somewhere there is a guy who's going to think you're the most beautiful and sexiest girl on the face of this fucking earth. And no matter the size or shape of any other girl, you'll still always be number 1 in his eyes. Trust me, this is the way I feel about my woman... Dudes might just call me gay for this, but God damn.. I just don't find any girl even moderately comparable to the beauty of the one I'm with.

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  • I'm 5'0 and 120 so I'm fat AND short. Lol I used to be 100lbs and looked great but now it's a different story. All you can do is look your best like hit the gym and buy some padded bras, grow your hair longer, etc.

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  • it's normal, and you should stop being jealous, it wouldn't help you.

    I hate the size of my body as I'm 5.6:/
    One thing that I hate the most is when I see 16yrs taller than me:/

    to deal with this, I hit the gym/jim, and I have a good body shape (not ripped or super slim).
    But fit body, and I love my body.

    DO something about it!

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  • I feel inferior when I'm with other guys my age, I don't know why. I just have the confidence, and I know that I'm not unattractive but in those moments I feel I'm the least attractive with a shit personality.
    So yeah, I'd say this is normal.

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  • I get jealous of my skinny sister, I have to work harder but still cant be thin like her, she can eat anything she wants and not gain weight, I eat and gain, I am walking an hoir a day and still not losing the weight I want, I am not really fat but wanna lose a few pounds,

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  • Very normal. The only thing to do is not give a sht. Get on with your life.

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  • I know how you feel. I have a rectangular body shape. I hate it. My hips and my breasts arent very big. At least, I tell myself that I do have breats and hips, and that I am slim.

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  • I think it's pretty normal to think this way. I get like that too.

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  • It's normal, everyone has their moments where they feel inferior in some way. Celebrities like Beyonce and Megan Fox have had plastic surgery because they felt insecure with themselves. The most important thing is simply learning to love yourself as you are and being comfortable in your own skin.

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  • ENVY is a tough habit to kick, but if you work at it you'll be a lot more happy with yourself.

    Jealousy: is the fear of losing something that one possesses to another person.

    Envy: is the pain or frustration caused by another person having something that one does not have oneself.

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