Feel the way i feel...

I have been made fun of all my life, by beautiful women/girls. Mostly, because I used to be fat. I got turned down alot by the women/girls I like for the same reason. I never dated a woman who is considered a "10",even though most of the women I did date are "10's" in my eyes. I am 20 years old now, and i am growing into my body alot more. I am a really handsome guy I think, and now I just want these so called "beautiful" women to feel just as bad, as they made me feel. I think that most women who do have really good looks are too full of themselves, and I would like to take them down a notch. Is this normal? How should I deal with it?

Is It Normal?
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  • You probably were one of those types of girls huh. Probably spent most of your time making fun of guys like me, and turning me down in front crowds of your friends just to be cool. Just because you didn't want to stand out and be different. If I am wrong just let me know, but if you were then I think you have no right to tell me how I should feel about being ridiculed FOR YEARS over the same stupid things. By the way just because this is an urge or desire doesn't mean that I should go through and act it out, because that WOULD make me like them, but you know, sometimes I get sick of being the nice guy all the fucking time. Sometimes I just want to turn back time so that I can take back every bit of time I wasted on pursuing what we call love. Maybe, just maybe I could find a way to make people like you understand that we are all fucking human, we are not perfect, we all make mistakes, and most of us spend life in regret because of it. I wrote this because I just wanted to voice this out. Apparently I can't even do that. So whatever, your welcome.

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    • I have been in your shoes. The best revenge is a combination of ignoring/putting down those girls (not all 10's, just the ones that actually did or are doing you harm) plus getting a cute one on your arm and rubbing that in those 10's faces any chance you can.

      But please treat the nice 10's nicely; you just never know when you might wind up with one, life can be funny that way.

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  • Option 1.
    Have sex with them in a very degrading manner and then kick them out the door without a towel. Remember, in this situation only your fulfillment counts.

    Option 2.
    Start short-term relationships with a few of them and see how much money and crap you can mooch before letting it slip that you're a deadbeat cheater (in this situation). Enjoy your win and move on in life

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  • Some women can behave in a very cruel and insensitive way and it is normal that their behaviour hurt you to the point that you crave for the opportunity to teach them a lesson. Good luck, in fact, it can help them open their eyes a bit.

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  • Aw the part of "..I did date are "10's" in my eyes" was super cute!!

    Well, obvioulsy, dont date anybody who laughed at you before just because you were fat, but if youre so handsome and you can get 10 girls, go for it!?

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  • Geez, fellate yourself much. How about you get over yourself before getting over the women turning you down. I don't blame them. Narcissism and childlike behaviour is not attractive.

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  • its very normal and healthy and i think you will be fine

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  • well, you are very young and still have a lot to experience and learn... I wonder how "good" those bimbos who bullied you in the past are doing these days... remember that kids at school are cruel... I was made fun of too so I know how you feel... I think my "revenge' at this point if I were you was maybe to make sure those bobble heads see you now... considering you are in shape and look you best; in other words, you feel confident and they can no longer mess with your self-esteem. Go for it then! let them to see you now... like an author put it..."nothing messes up more with people than seeing others having a good f***ing life"
    Now, DLois has a good point... would you look at an overweight girl these days? it is true we find bitches in all sizes, color, race... so I hope you are more tolerant about the issue and this impulse of "giving the bimbos a taste of their own medicine will subside and it is only because you want to get this out of your system. I wish you success!!

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  • Why don't you date overweight women now that u look different understanding the rejection.
    Some women are bitches that are 10's but not all - some fat ugly chicks are bitches you got two types of people in either classification there are good and then there are bad
    It's good that you know what you don't want right?

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  • how about you grow some balls and realize that human beings can be extremely shitty and move on with your life?

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    • Like you...thx. lesson learned.

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      • dude, listen to what you're trying to do. you want to "get back" at these women for turning you down? what kind of man does that? if you want to make yourself feel better, like I said, realize that you are capable of being a better person than them. Thanks*

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  • If you really are as handsome as you say, like if you're like, really hot now, you should go back and ask them out again, and when they say yes you should throw it in their faces like they did to you.

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