Feel left out

I'm dating a married man who says he no longer wants to be with his wife but he does not see a way of getting out! Bearing in mind he is nearly 50 and I'm 26 I have good career like to think I'm nice looking etc. I know his wife and she is very horrible woman towards him they have not had sex for 12 years and even admit they are like friends now. He has really pissed me off tonight as we were all going out to cinema me him his wife and friend of mine. My friend let me down last min as baby sitter didn't turn up and we met up earlier and we had sex etc then after he tells me you can come with me and the wife tonight just us two but you have to drive us there and back. This isn't the first time he has shunted me to one side for his wife. Now I totally understand that's his wife but considering they argue all the time talks of divorce he is now sleeping with me and telling me he loves me I'm so angry. I know it's all bullshit what he is telling he is trying to have his cake and eat it I'm so annoyed with myself I have wasted the last two months on this bloke and for what nothing to be treated like crap by him and his wife talking about me behind my back. I know sleeping with him is wrong but last year she gave him the green light to have an affair but as long as he comes home to her I mean what sort of relationship is that it's fucked up what are people's opinions on what I should do thank you

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  • your his whore. what is the issue again you are dating a married man and you feel left out? you are the whore , did you want to be the wife?

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  • MOVE ON!!

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  • This dumb bitch is second fiddle to a married grandpas wife and I can't get laid to save my life.

    Shoot me someone.

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  • It sounds like u signed up for exactly what u got bro. It is a tough lesson but very valuable. Never expect the person ur in a relationship with to change

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    • I know he will never change in fact he has the life of Riley yeah ok him and his wife don't sleep together but he is fucking a 26 year old I mean wtf am I doing seriously

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      • Indeed wtf ARE you doing?

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      • Yep.. well we tend to make stupid choices in relationships. I continue to make highly irrational decisions. But hey don't beat yourself up about it, girls with some confidence are rare enough as it is.

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        • I know and to start with I didn't know he was married and he thinks now I know throwing gift cards at me and giving me money I will stay it won't happen as I have a good job and money myself I'm don't with it tbh wasted two months on a bloke for nothing

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  • He is good looking good body he makes me laugh and to top it off he has money which is not the reason I got to know him as I didn't realise he had money at first

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  • And he is 46 and is not a grandad yet thank you very much

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    • So he has children then.

      You are just a piece of ass that drives him and his shrew wife around. You'll always just be his side salad so if you're happy as it is now, stay.

      If not leave. You won't change him. You really think he wants to divorce his bitch wife and pay her monthly til he dies?

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      • It's over between us and like I said earlier I didn't know he was married at first and by the time I found out I had feelings for him. I'm not being second best to anyone.

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  • And I ain't dumb!!!

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