Wow you should be a writer. lol! You have great vocab. Anyways, I understand about you putting a wall up. My boyfriend that I have been dating for 5 years did the same thing to me when we first started dating. His whole family got mixed up with hard drugs, he got taken away from them when he was like 10 and got seperated from his sister also. He was alone in group homes and felt like he was abandoned. The truth is though, if you ever want to have a relationship you gotta take a chance. I personally have lost A LOT of friends, in fact as of right now I only have one good friend left. Yes it really hurt when I lost them, but you learn to move on. As for your relationship right now, make sure he knows you love him, and if he seems like a good guy then let your wall down to him. I cant really give advice about the friendship part because I also have a really hard time opening up and making new friends. I also feel that every time I think I make one it never seems to go past the first encounter. Hope this helped at least a little.
Fears of abandonment: Loving friends kept at bay
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Wow you should be a writer. lol! You have great vocab. Anyways, I understand about you putting a wall up. My boyfriend that I have been dating for 5 years did the same thing to me when we first started dating. His whole family got mixed up with hard drugs, he got taken away from them when he was like 10 and got seperated from his sister also. He was alone in group homes and felt like he was abandoned. The truth is though, if you ever want to have a relationship you gotta take a chance. I personally have lost A LOT of friends, in fact as of right now I only have one good friend left. Yes it really hurt when I lost them, but you learn to move on. As for your relationship right now, make sure he knows you love him, and if he seems like a good guy then let your wall down to him. I cant really give advice about the friendship part because I also have a really hard time opening up and making new friends. I also feel that every time I think I make one it never seems to go past the first encounter. Hope this helped at least a little.