Fear of relationships

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  • If it's not normal, then I'm not normal either.

    I feel like it's because of insecurities that you don't want to reveal. I think this only because I have evaluated my situation and I know it's true. My insecurities with myself have created a huge rift between me and possible love.

    If the person you are with doesn't make you feel comfortable ask....are they making you feel uncomfortable or are you making yourself feel that way? Then, exactly what part do you steer away from? The physical part? The emotions? The commitment? I guess it could be all those things as they tie together.

    If we have similar issues, I don't know the answer, but I am a work in progress. I ask myself what it is I want in the future. I always said I don't want to marry, but the older I get, the more I wonder if that's true or a cop-out. I need to put myself out there more. They say, "Some birds should never be caged, their wings are too beautiful to hide." Cheesy, but kind of applicable.

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