Nah not out in his home because it's all he has. Their freezer is filled with chicken nuggets and fridge has bread, no cold cuts, and cerial. If we go out its sushi but that's a rare occasion. He's 21, going to college but living from home as its cheaper. He pays for it himself and has car payments so he really doesn't have the money to purchase food on his own. The thing is is when I do go food shopping with him (his parents give us their card), I suggest getting vegetables and pasta but then he goes on and picks potato chips and a cheese dip and his siblings and himself always say they need to get a desert for their dad. Need to. Like it's imperative. When clearly none of them need it. Ive also asked him if we could do food shopping together and make a really nice meal and impress his parents but he always declines (he hates his parents and being home so he doesn't want to make dinner for them as they have made his life kind of a living hell). I've tried the healthy route and I don't know my thing is just stupid. As I said it's like an urge. Like in the back of my mind that I want it but I know I never should and I should never do it and never indulge in it. It seems like I'd never even need to coax him anyway at this point but i do want to help him but it feels like ive tried everything. And the food coax part in the begining was mainly because he's self conscious about his weight and was eating barely anything in front of me and I was worried that he might of even been anorexic at that point with no eating. And I mean i don't want my food to go to waste and he gladly takes it. We generally have one plate of food and then eat from it together.
And for the record when he did gain weight that was over a 2 month period that I didn't see him and when he visited at colege it was really a nice surprise on my part and that's how I realized that I actually like this. And that was 3 months ago.
Fat fetish: IIN to want my boyfriend to gain weight?
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Nah not out in his home because it's all he has. Their freezer is filled with chicken nuggets and fridge has bread, no cold cuts, and cerial. If we go out its sushi but that's a rare occasion. He's 21, going to college but living from home as its cheaper. He pays for it himself and has car payments so he really doesn't have the money to purchase food on his own. The thing is is when I do go food shopping with him (his parents give us their card), I suggest getting vegetables and pasta but then he goes on and picks potato chips and a cheese dip and his siblings and himself always say they need to get a desert for their dad. Need to. Like it's imperative. When clearly none of them need it. Ive also asked him if we could do food shopping together and make a really nice meal and impress his parents but he always declines (he hates his parents and being home so he doesn't want to make dinner for them as they have made his life kind of a living hell). I've tried the healthy route and I don't know my thing is just stupid. As I said it's like an urge. Like in the back of my mind that I want it but I know I never should and I should never do it and never indulge in it. It seems like I'd never even need to coax him anyway at this point but i do want to help him but it feels like ive tried everything. And the food coax part in the begining was mainly because he's self conscious about his weight and was eating barely anything in front of me and I was worried that he might of even been anorexic at that point with no eating. And I mean i don't want my food to go to waste and he gladly takes it. We generally have one plate of food and then eat from it together.
And for the record when he did gain weight that was over a 2 month period that I didn't see him and when he visited at colege it was really a nice surprise on my part and that's how I realized that I actually like this. And that was 3 months ago.