He lives in the middle of nowhere so there's no gym. Also his whole family is moderately obese so it's in his genetics (although he has a clean bill of health). His family buys take out generally or microwave chicken nuggets because both the parents are out working odd hours and takeout is easier and faster (which I don't agree with). My boyfriend doesn't have money currently to buy his own meals.
I'm really into fitness actually despite my fixations as well which is why I'm more conflicted. And yea I've decided to not ever pressure him into gaining weight. I have actually tried helping him loose weight with joining me at a yoga class or one of those fitness versions of drinking games for shows bet he's never interested. We try to eat healthy when together but I eat healthy all the time when I'm not with him and when I am with him it's like he only has unhealthy foods available and then I go on and munch on 5 cookies. It's like I'm too comfortable around him.
I just really want him to be happy but he has no urge or motivation to help himself. We do go on nature walks though. But that's probably his only exercise and we see eachother once a month. I just feel like I can't control this stupid urge to love his fat. I mean i don't really want him to gain. I guess I just want him to accept himself. And in turn let me play with the chub he currently has. I say "let" because I don't want to hurt him by embracing it too much if he doesn't love himself.
Fat fetish: IIN to want my boyfriend to gain weight?
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He lives in the middle of nowhere so there's no gym. Also his whole family is moderately obese so it's in his genetics (although he has a clean bill of health). His family buys take out generally or microwave chicken nuggets because both the parents are out working odd hours and takeout is easier and faster (which I don't agree with). My boyfriend doesn't have money currently to buy his own meals.
I'm really into fitness actually despite my fixations as well which is why I'm more conflicted. And yea I've decided to not ever pressure him into gaining weight. I have actually tried helping him loose weight with joining me at a yoga class or one of those fitness versions of drinking games for shows bet he's never interested. We try to eat healthy when together but I eat healthy all the time when I'm not with him and when I am with him it's like he only has unhealthy foods available and then I go on and munch on 5 cookies. It's like I'm too comfortable around him.
I just really want him to be happy but he has no urge or motivation to help himself. We do go on nature walks though. But that's probably his only exercise and we see eachother once a month. I just feel like I can't control this stupid urge to love his fat. I mean i don't really want him to gain. I guess I just want him to accept himself. And in turn let me play with the chub he currently has. I say "let" because I don't want to hurt him by embracing it too much if he doesn't love himself.