Fat fetish: is it normal to want my boyfriend to gain weight?

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I have a bit of a fat fetish. Not too big, but enough to have a tummy. I really like touching and doing stuff to fat. I know this isn't common, and is mostly considered abnormal. My boyfriend has quite a tummy, which I love. He knows that and he accepts and enjoys it. For me, he is eating healthy, but not too little, so that he stays the same weight.
My problem is that I want him to gain weight. I know it isn't my right to force him to gain weight, and he doesn't want to, so I shouldn't force him. But when we eat together, I find myself eating less and offering my food to him. I feel really bad about this, but I don't think he's noticed it yet. I really don't want to force him into anything, but...ohh, it would be so great...
I've told him about it, and he does not want to gain weigh, so I told him that I wouldn't force him. But still.
What should I do?

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  • Maki_P
    13 years ago | pl

    You respect him. Relationships need respect.
    But I empathise with you, I love Fat guys, I can't resist a big tummy.
    Maybe you guys can compromise?

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  • Obsessive1117
    11 years ago | pl

    I'm a guy and I've gained 15 pounds. Would someone please tease me and make fun of me for eating so much and putting on that weight? I'd LOVE it!

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  • merkel204
    13 years ago | pl

    fuk,you'd love me then.

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  • Twinkletoes94
    3 months ago | pl

    Since my bf (32ys ~230lbs) and I (28yr 140lbs) got together he's gained some weight, probably ~50lbs, and I can't complain. I love his belly and everything else. He's the perfect snuggle bear. I'd be okay with him gaining more, so I totally get what you mean.

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  • Gamzeee
    9 years ago | pl

    How about you get fatter and play with your own ...

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago | pl

    No, NO, NO! Dont makes your boyfriend unhealthy for your own selfish gain.

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  • Scndstr
    11 years ago | pl

    Marry me PLEASE! :D (if I wasn't already married!)

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  • ironbeam
    11 years ago | pl

    I;m a big guy, and i like my belly to be played with, also like my belly to be pulled and streched down, My belly hangs quite low but would like it lower by having someone else do it.

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  • swishvillain
    11 years ago | pl

    I also love to see guys getting chubby. Not unhealthy-fat just a bit overweight. Dunno why, it's just how my tastes are set.

    It's totally normal to have a preference for one shape - even if it seems to be more unusual to prefer rounder shapes!

    Like others have said - I don't think there's much you can do to encourage him to gain if he's not into it but you never know, perhaps he'll change his mind in future.

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  • fluffyshem
    12 years ago | pl

    This probably isn't practical advice... so, sorry... could you find a new fix? It's not really unhealthy to gain just a bit of weight, but if you're hung up on wanting him to do so when he doesn't want to...

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