If she was sure she wanted it, with no mixed messages and seemed totally certain and conclusive, I'd do it. Personally, I'd feel selfish if I didn't, but I don't know your exact situation.
If she is definitely (I mean DEFINITELY) going to recover COMPLETELY, then it depends how long it would take. Years? Months? Just a couple of weeks? If she was going to be in years of pain I'd honour her wish; if she only had a month or so I'd let her suffer so she could eventually get better.
Surely there are professionals you can talk to about this sort of thing? I suggest you see one. They can't tell you what to do, but they can shed some light on what most people do and what most doctors think is best.
Also, I haven't been in this situation. I might, nay, would think completely differently if this happened to me.
Family member wants the plug pulled on them but you won't allow it?
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If she was sure she wanted it, with no mixed messages and seemed totally certain and conclusive, I'd do it. Personally, I'd feel selfish if I didn't, but I don't know your exact situation.
If she is definitely (I mean DEFINITELY) going to recover COMPLETELY, then it depends how long it would take. Years? Months? Just a couple of weeks? If she was going to be in years of pain I'd honour her wish; if she only had a month or so I'd let her suffer so she could eventually get better.
Surely there are professionals you can talk to about this sort of thing? I suggest you see one. They can't tell you what to do, but they can shed some light on what most people do and what most doctors think is best.
Also, I haven't been in this situation. I might, nay, would think completely differently if this happened to me.