I usually don't read stories on this website which are that long but this was actually entertaining, so kudos for that:P
Anyway it seems to me like you are kind of putting this girl on a pedestal, it all seems unreal now and the need to be around her is much stronger because of the distance and all that, so be careful about that. Spending several hours on what basically was a holiday does not always represent what it would be like in a normal situation since you do not see any annoyances or flaws you might encounter when you are around eachother for a longer period of time.
That being said, it does sound like you have some special feelings for this particular girl, which I guess is pretty rare especially since you are not around her anymore that often. Seeing that after everything changed for you she still holds a special place in your heart it is worth at least being open towards her with it for sure.
thank you for taking the time to read and comment.glad that it was, um, entertaining XD i can see where your coming from, talking about putting her on a pedestal.
It was a short amount of time after quite a while of not seeing her. It's hard to know though. We both went to this school for quite a while, it is boarding school (so you see the same people every day) and it was a very small school (20-30 kids on avarage in a year). I got to know her quite well
On the other hand, people can change alot in the time that i was away. I know i have. So at the same time that i want to feel cautious and be carefull, i feel excited, like i want to finds out more about her and how she has changed.
It's hard too know what to do, but im not the type of person that likes to have regrets, and after giving it much thought, ive decided that if i never told her i would definantly regret it, lol
Plus, im sure im probably not giving her enough credit. Im afraid to tell her cause she might freak out and get distant, but the more i think about it, that just dosent fit her at all in the first place :p
Falling for a girl when we are in an unusual and (painfull?) situation
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I usually don't read stories on this website which are that long but this was actually entertaining, so kudos for that:P
Anyway it seems to me like you are kind of putting this girl on a pedestal, it all seems unreal now and the need to be around her is much stronger because of the distance and all that, so be careful about that. Spending several hours on what basically was a holiday does not always represent what it would be like in a normal situation since you do not see any annoyances or flaws you might encounter when you are around eachother for a longer period of time.
That being said, it does sound like you have some special feelings for this particular girl, which I guess is pretty rare especially since you are not around her anymore that often. Seeing that after everything changed for you she still holds a special place in your heart it is worth at least being open towards her with it for sure.
Adorable story though ;)
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thank you for taking the time to read and comment.glad that it was, um, entertaining XD i can see where your coming from, talking about putting her on a pedestal.
It was a short amount of time after quite a while of not seeing her. It's hard to know though. We both went to this school for quite a while, it is boarding school (so you see the same people every day) and it was a very small school (20-30 kids on avarage in a year). I got to know her quite well
On the other hand, people can change alot in the time that i was away. I know i have. So at the same time that i want to feel cautious and be carefull, i feel excited, like i want to finds out more about her and how she has changed.
It's hard too know what to do, but im not the type of person that likes to have regrets, and after giving it much thought, ive decided that if i never told her i would definantly regret it, lol
Plus, im sure im probably not giving her enough credit. Im afraid to tell her cause she might freak out and get distant, but the more i think about it, that just dosent fit her at all in the first place :p