Yes, it is normal, and I can definitely relate to the way you feel about this girl. This story was very genuine, and I really feel for you man. You should tell her how you feel. I bet she likely feels the same way.
I may have told this story on here before, I'm not sure. I knew this girl before, and we had been friends since we were pretty little. Her mom and my mom were business partners and friends. She would come over and we'd hang out and stuff, play games, talk about stuff, etc.
Well, one day she came over, and it got around that she had had feelings for me when we were little. An innocent little crush, but it made me realize that I kind of liked her too. So I told her that. I told her that I thought she was pretty, and that her eyes were very beautiful, and that I really liked her too. I even teased her about how much she had "grown" since we had last seen each other, lol. She was a little embarrassed about that remark, but in a humorous way. She knew I was just flirting with her.
We got to spend one day together, and about half the night as well. It was a pitifully pathetic amount of time to fall so hard for someone, I know, but I felt so close with her, closer than I had been to anyone for a long time. I wanted to be with her so badly, and she wanted to be with me as well. I could see it in her eyes. We had a strong connection, and it was special. But she held back. She knew that the relationship wasn't going to work out. She knew that we wouldn't get to see each other because of how far we lived away, and she was right. She had to leave the next day, and I haven't really seen her since. When she left, I was pretty devastated. It hurt me emotionally, and even physically. I felt pain in my chest because I longed for her company. I yearned for that closeness that I felt with her that has been missing from my life for so long. I remember it like it was yesterday, and it has been probably 4 or 5 years since then. The first few weeks are the worst, but the pain dulls some with time. I still think about her sometimes, but I know she has moved on now.
lol your right about the paragraphs. I cant believe i forgot, but i guess that's what happens when I try to write at 3 am.
anyway, thanks man. It helped me a lot to know that someone else has gone through a similar situation. I still don't know what to do about it, but i guess ill just have to do my best. Thanks again
Falling for a girl when we are in an unusual and (painfull?) situation
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Paragraphs next time dude! PARAGRAPHS!!!
Yes, it is normal, and I can definitely relate to the way you feel about this girl. This story was very genuine, and I really feel for you man. You should tell her how you feel. I bet she likely feels the same way.
I may have told this story on here before, I'm not sure. I knew this girl before, and we had been friends since we were pretty little. Her mom and my mom were business partners and friends. She would come over and we'd hang out and stuff, play games, talk about stuff, etc.
Well, one day she came over, and it got around that she had had feelings for me when we were little. An innocent little crush, but it made me realize that I kind of liked her too. So I told her that. I told her that I thought she was pretty, and that her eyes were very beautiful, and that I really liked her too. I even teased her about how much she had "grown" since we had last seen each other, lol. She was a little embarrassed about that remark, but in a humorous way. She knew I was just flirting with her.
We got to spend one day together, and about half the night as well. It was a pitifully pathetic amount of time to fall so hard for someone, I know, but I felt so close with her, closer than I had been to anyone for a long time. I wanted to be with her so badly, and she wanted to be with me as well. I could see it in her eyes. We had a strong connection, and it was special. But she held back. She knew that the relationship wasn't going to work out. She knew that we wouldn't get to see each other because of how far we lived away, and she was right. She had to leave the next day, and I haven't really seen her since. When she left, I was pretty devastated. It hurt me emotionally, and even physically. I felt pain in my chest because I longed for her company. I yearned for that closeness that I felt with her that has been missing from my life for so long. I remember it like it was yesterday, and it has been probably 4 or 5 years since then. The first few weeks are the worst, but the pain dulls some with time. I still think about her sometimes, but I know she has moved on now.
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lol your right about the paragraphs. I cant believe i forgot, but i guess that's what happens when I try to write at 3 am.
anyway, thanks man. It helped me a lot to know that someone else has gone through a similar situation. I still don't know what to do about it, but i guess ill just have to do my best. Thanks again