Falling for a girl for the first time...

okay soo i kinda have a little huge crush on my friend and i dont know how to tell her/show her my feelings. We've been friends for about 3 months. She doesnt really like to show her feelings so i dont know if she likes me or not

Be straight forward with her and tell her how you feel 51
Wait and see if she shows any feelings towards you 36
Just kiss her and watch her reaction 22
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  • ThatGuyPeter

    I usually build up a flirtatious friendliness getting to know about her, meeting her friends, going to party's together, then after I am sure that we are right for each other I make a move, I got rushed into a relationship recently by my friends and tbh I hate all the 'secrets' and we aren't close at all

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  • chezycheze

    If you are in the situation that you really like this girl and say hypothetically want to have a relationship with her that consists of dating and kissing and stuff like that, then you have to tell her. If you wait to see if she shows any feeling towards you, you might wait forever. And, if you dive in with trying to kiss her, it might end badly. But, if you plan on telling her, you should probably put a good bit of thought into how you will tell her. Some reasonable ideas would be asking her (at an appropriate time and place or situation) if she is at all interested in dating or having some sort of relationship. Then, after you date some, you will become more comfortable expressing your feelings with her.

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    • yourfuckinghero

      Anything in the world might end badly, don't let fear of rejection hold you back.

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  • LifeCanBeHard

    (assuming your a boy)
    Don't be to forward, she may just like your friendship and nothing else. have a laugh and ask her if there are any hot guys she would date in school and if she says yeah then she probably likes someone else, if not you have a chance. Maybe talk to one of her friends to see if she likes you? but don't do anything to rationally

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    • im a girl and im bisexual

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  • yup, definitely tell her

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  • jessicatruesong2009

    well don't kiss her that could anger her. And don't just wait, because shell probably find out sooner or later. Just pull her aside and try to explain to her. Most girls an tell when a guy likes her, so she may already know. If she gets mad or something she's not a very good friend, she should at least be nice and compassionate about it, as a friend.

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  • pixie_dust

    if she's ur homegirl, go out dancing and she how she dances and by watching u can get an idea. if she's not into it, don't sweat it, just keep on rockin'

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  • Flowers

    Drop subtle hints.

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  • BoredGuy

    Show her your hard on!

    On a serious note: if you can make her laugh, you will get laid eventually :P

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    • yourfuckinghero

      Since it's a bisexual girl, perhaps this "hard-on" you speak of is an engorged clitoris?

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      • pixie_dust

        ugh, tmi

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  • DON'T kiss her. That would freak me out if one of my guy friends did that.

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    • yourfuckinghero

      I disagree with this statement. Kiss, but make sure you kiss well.

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