Extreme fantasies ...

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First off, I know enough about myself to know that the worst thing in the world that could ever happen to me would be to be raped. I think I would rather be murdered, and I somehow know that (god forbid it to ever happen) in a fit of rage I would probably hunt the man down and end up in jail. However, 95%% of my sex fantasies are about ... well ... being taken against my will. I haven't really asked him to yet, but I really want my boyfriend to tie me up (I could never mention the true fantasies in my head and why I want him to tie me up). I also always prefer for him to be on top because ... well ... the same fantasies. Is this normal? Are there a lot of other girls out there who are positively ashamed of feeling this way?

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  • simplyscarlett
    13 years ago

    i think all fantasies are normal and the ones you describe of wanting to submit to a dominant partner/partners are part of the fantasy realm for the majority of people.

    if it turns you on, you must discuss it with your partner - chances are he will be equally turned on by it, and even if he isn't, he might give it a go so you can experience that which you have been fantasasing over. and it's sexy, exciting and fun to share your fantasies with your partner.

    often extreme fantasies are best left to the realm of fantasy and we know we would never want to act on them. but what you describe are the fantasies of a normal submissive person and that is something to be proud of rather than ashamed by.

    best of luck :)

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