Explain the bad boy thing to me

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  • Wow. To be a creep,and a loitering one at that, you certainly have depth of thought. I am wondering the same. What attracted her to him in the first place? Some primal gene programming? Something in his demeanor that told her that he would be a good provider and protector? I'm curious.

    Note: I'm not a bad boy, but I do have confidence and above average strength. Most women I think should see that as attractive, but many don't. I honestly think that some women are attracted to assholes simply because they like being abused, possibly due to low self esteem, which so many women have. But I digress, I just don't know.

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    • Of course neither you nor I would know. Women know but can't find words for their primal instincts or subconscious processes. RoseIsabella is our best shot. I am hopeful that she will give us something we can understand.

      I have long resigned myself as a total failure at subtle erotic attraction. I know I will die without the intimate fulfillment that gives life its deep meaning. But I would only want to understand the missing dynamics of this process so that I can understand the failure that my life has been.

      PS. When I was younger I bought a video tape showing how to be a male stripper. Only certain kinds of swagger seem to pump body heat to get female attention. I always had the sense that this approach would have worked well for me if I were more attractive.

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