Well yes, Rosie. It is good to see that you learned from your mistakes. But what was it about your first husband that attracted you before you even knew anything about him? Perhaps something in his attitude? Did he have a bit more stage presence than other guys? A bit more swagger? Did he command attention? Was there an element of fear that kept you intrigued?
I know it is natural for women to keep subliminal impressions at a subliminal level, and not even acknowledge them. But there are many beta males that are good men. They are never noticed nor acknowledged by women until women are about 50 years old.
We guys are trying to understand one of the mysteries of life from the woman's perspective. You are the female at IIN that is most likely to step outside the box and share your impressions in a way that we can understand it.
This whole post kind of depends on you. *silent eyes are waiting*
Wow. To be a creep,and a loitering one at that, you certainly have depth of thought. I am wondering the same. What attracted her to him in the first place? Some primal gene programming? Something in his demeanor that told her that he would be a good provider and protector? I'm curious.
Note: I'm not a bad boy, but I do have confidence and above average strength. Most women I think should see that as attractive, but many don't. I honestly think that some women are attracted to assholes simply because they like being abused, possibly due to low self esteem, which so many women have. But I digress, I just don't know.
Of course neither you nor I would know. Women know but can't find words for their primal instincts or subconscious processes. RoseIsabella is our best shot. I am hopeful that she will give us something we can understand.
I have long resigned myself as a total failure at subtle erotic attraction. I know I will die without the intimate fulfillment that gives life its deep meaning. But I would only want to understand the missing dynamics of this process so that I can understand the failure that my life has been.
PS. When I was younger I bought a video tape showing how to be a male stripper. Only certain kinds of swagger seem to pump body heat to get female attention. I always had the sense that this approach would have worked well for me if I were more attractive.
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Well yes, Rosie. It is good to see that you learned from your mistakes. But what was it about your first husband that attracted you before you even knew anything about him? Perhaps something in his attitude? Did he have a bit more stage presence than other guys? A bit more swagger? Did he command attention? Was there an element of fear that kept you intrigued?
I know it is natural for women to keep subliminal impressions at a subliminal level, and not even acknowledge them. But there are many beta males that are good men. They are never noticed nor acknowledged by women until women are about 50 years old.
We guys are trying to understand one of the mysteries of life from the woman's perspective. You are the female at IIN that is most likely to step outside the box and share your impressions in a way that we can understand it.
This whole post kind of depends on you. *silent eyes are waiting*
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@The_Loitering_Creep I have no idea how you received thumbs down for your post. Completely undeserving.
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Thank you for the encouragement, my friend. But, some people hate creeps regardless of our best efforts to improve the world.
Wow. To be a creep,and a loitering one at that, you certainly have depth of thought. I am wondering the same. What attracted her to him in the first place? Some primal gene programming? Something in his demeanor that told her that he would be a good provider and protector? I'm curious.
Note: I'm not a bad boy, but I do have confidence and above average strength. Most women I think should see that as attractive, but many don't. I honestly think that some women are attracted to assholes simply because they like being abused, possibly due to low self esteem, which so many women have. But I digress, I just don't know.
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Of course neither you nor I would know. Women know but can't find words for their primal instincts or subconscious processes. RoseIsabella is our best shot. I am hopeful that she will give us something we can understand.
I have long resigned myself as a total failure at subtle erotic attraction. I know I will die without the intimate fulfillment that gives life its deep meaning. But I would only want to understand the missing dynamics of this process so that I can understand the failure that my life has been.
PS. When I was younger I bought a video tape showing how to be a male stripper. Only certain kinds of swagger seem to pump body heat to get female attention. I always had the sense that this approach would have worked well for me if I were more attractive.