She probably feels pressured and stressed out by your intense love. I not saying that loving her as much as you do is a bad thing - it's definitely not! - it's just that (I'm assuming) you're young and that the thought of engagement (a supposedly lifelong commitment!) is rather terrifying to most people under the age of 25-30.
Or she might just be falling out of love.
Either way there isn't that much you can do (except maybe try to assume her that you'll take things at her pace). But basically it sounds like you sincerely care about her, and just that makes you a pretty great boyfriend. If she wants something different, or just wants to be single, that's not your "fault". All you can do is be yourself, and be honest about your feelings and intentions. As long as you do that you'll have no regrets (having no regrets isn't hugely comforting when one's been dumped, but it's a lot better than being dumped AND having regrets about how you behaved).
Ex girlfriend broke up with me.
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She probably feels pressured and stressed out by your intense love. I not saying that loving her as much as you do is a bad thing - it's definitely not! - it's just that (I'm assuming) you're young and that the thought of engagement (a supposedly lifelong commitment!) is rather terrifying to most people under the age of 25-30.
Or she might just be falling out of love.
Either way there isn't that much you can do (except maybe try to assume her that you'll take things at her pace). But basically it sounds like you sincerely care about her, and just that makes you a pretty great boyfriend. If she wants something different, or just wants to be single, that's not your "fault". All you can do is be yourself, and be honest about your feelings and intentions. As long as you do that you'll have no regrets (having no regrets isn't hugely comforting when one's been dumped, but it's a lot better than being dumped AND having regrets about how you behaved).
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Perfect answer.