Ex girlfriend broke up with me.

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My girlfriend broke up with me, after been together for 2 years, I gave her a promise ring and it was just a matter of time between giving her an engagement ring, anyway, I have never been so in love with someone.

Long story short, she broke up with me not even a week after surprising me with a candle dinner beautifully set up in her house and writing me a letter of how MUCH she loves me and how Love means ''us'' (celebrating 2nd anniversary)

She says she doesn't know what she feels for me, that she doesnt know if we are going to get together in 2, 5, or 7 months from today, she says she doesn't know the future but at the same time she says she has no intentions on coming back with me, is this normal?

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  • NormalityMan
    14 years ago

    Sucks, but it's normal. It is truely awful. Don't worry too much though. If it's not meant to be then it's not meant to be. I would try to get her back though. SOunds like she is worth it. Thats just me though. And there is no way to tell how far you can go before you just gotta stop. I can't give you any straight answer. Just hope things work out in the end and continue forward

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  • beautifulenigma
    14 years ago

    She probably feels pressured and stressed out by your intense love. I not saying that loving her as much as you do is a bad thing - it's definitely not! - it's just that (I'm assuming) you're young and that the thought of engagement (a supposedly lifelong commitment!) is rather terrifying to most people under the age of 25-30.
    Or she might just be falling out of love.
    Either way there isn't that much you can do (except maybe try to assume her that you'll take things at her pace). But basically it sounds like you sincerely care about her, and just that makes you a pretty great boyfriend. If she wants something different, or just wants to be single, that's not your "fault". All you can do is be yourself, and be honest about your feelings and intentions. As long as you do that you'll have no regrets (having no regrets isn't hugely comforting when one's been dumped, but it's a lot better than being dumped AND having regrets about how you behaved).

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    • standbyme555
      11 years ago

      Perfect answer.

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  • ladyday
    13 years ago

    She probably just wants to experience different things. It happens.

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