Ex gf regrets

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I dumped my first girlfriend because I got bored of her (we never did anything but cuddle and such, and we didn't have the same friends, and she couldn't drink legally and it was winter so we never went out), but she was incredibly hot and we had sex all the time. After months of not having found anyone, I started missing the sex... ... but not the girl. Now I'm dating someone and we are engaged sexually but I miss my ex gfs body. Not her personality... not really, though she was a nice girl. I realize I'm an a**hole for thinking this, but is it normal? What should I do?

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago | pl

    Hey Wayoutthere... You are my kind of man!! I agree with all you have written even though I am a (very responsive) female...;)... It is possible you are not with the right girl if your mind is wandering like this... We all deserve to be with someone that does it for us on every level. It takes time of course... And sometimes near enough has to be good enough. Keep looking I reckon.. Good luck!

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  • anabolic19
    14 years ago | pl

    I couldnt have put it better myself haha

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  • WayOutThere
    14 years ago | pl

    You're NOT an a--hole for thinking that. You're being honest, and this is perfectly normal. Sex with a girl who has an incredibly body, and is very responsive, is simply amazing. Of course you're going to miss her body, and the experiences you had with her, her personality notwithstanding. We tend to remember the 'good' parts of a relationship, and forget the 'bad.'

    It would be great to find a girlfriend who not only has an amazing body, but is also intelligent, articulate, and with a great personality. But, such girls are extremely rare. So, most people compromise. But, there might be another solution: have 2 girlfriends.

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  • anabolic19
    14 years ago | pl

    you'll never get anyone who compares to your firsts body mate its just somthing we have to get used to, i know what you mean tho for some reason all other women just dont feel right or they dont fit right its horrible

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  • droidone
    14 years ago | pl

    Nothing?

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