Ex bf got tinder day after we broke up

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i’m so heartbroken. is it normal to do this? he’s calling girls beautiful and insinuating on meeting up and shit?? it’s been 3 days and he still tell me he loves me. wtf. btw he doesn’t know i know this

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago | pl

    Him telling you he still loves you while moving on with other people really says that he doesn't care about you that much. He wants to keep stringing you along so you could be a potential side chick.

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  • redeyez7
    5 years ago | pl

    move on, don't waste ur time with him.

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  • debil
    5 years ago | pl

    you should really cut contact. hes just being possessive over you. and thats not fair (nor is it his place) to do so when hes obviously looking in other directions as well

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      maybe he doesn’t mean this breakup and he wants to get back together

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago | pl

    If it's who I think, it's normal for him and you should have expected it. Why would this guy ever change?

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago | pl

    You two broke up. What does it matter? Move on it looks like he has. It's surprising he hasn't asked for his key back.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      i never had his key he keeps it under the mat lol

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  • Miss_Aquarius
    5 years ago | pl

    My ex started dating and fucking another chick 2 days after we broke up. I was devastated and had never been that hurt. Now almost a year after that I realised he was a dick and I'm glad we aren't still together and I'm now friends with the chick he started dating after me as they didn't last long as he fucked her over. Some guys are just dicks and your much better without them x

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago | pl

    Give the key back and break it off. You are being played.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      why is he playing

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      • lordofopinions
        5 years ago | pl

        I didn't say he was playing but that YOU are being played. Your better off without him. Move on.

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  • horny_simpletons
    5 years ago | pl

    It is a bit strange that he's hitting on other girls and tells you he still loves you even when you're on a break...either tell him to make up his mind or end contact, it's not worth the trouble.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    What you really need is to stop stalking your ex boyfriend, return your apartment key and just leave him be.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    Tell him you need space.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago | pl

    I guess his way of coping with it is hooking up with random girls. How do you even know?

    Anyway, I feel like it's very hurtful for you and maybe you should ask him to wait a little.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago | pl

      i snooped on his computer

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      • IrishPotato
        5 years ago | pl

        Did you break into his house or some shit?

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago | pl

        No bueno.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago | pl

          why. isn’t bad he’s fucking talking to girls on tinder the DAY after we break up?? let alone told me he wouldn’t do that and that doesn’t want to. yet he wants to get laid. lol

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          • RoseIsabella
            5 years ago | pl

            Well, it's not about good and bad at this point, because ya'll are broken up which means that it should be a non-issue. Just do the next right thing, and leave him alone. Don't stalk him!

            I'm going to attempt to play Devil's advocate in this paragraph as I try to answer your questions. Maybe he felt trapped on in the relationship, and he has been longing to be free, and that's why he is on Tinder now. You said he told you he wouldn't be going going on Tinder and doesn't want to do so, but did you ask him about it before he said that? Maybe he told you all of that, because he doesn't want you to pester him about it, so he said whatever he thought would make you happy just to shut you up?

            Please don't get hurt, and or offended, but instead choose to move on with your life, and leave him be. It's over, that's what a break up is, a breakup is an ending. One chapter of your life has ended, and another one has begun. Don't make a fool out of yourself by denying reality, just accept it, and move on with your life. Acceptance is the answer to all your problems today.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago | pl

              no. at dinner when he was breaking up with me he kinda just said “i don’t even wanna go back on tinder” and on another occasion i said “i don’t even want to use tinder anymore. it’ll just make me sad” and he replied, “i don’t want to either” sketchy

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