Everything that can go wrong, will go wrong

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It's one of Murphy's laws and even though I am a pessimistic person, I always tried to keep my focus away from thinking that down-ish 'cause theres just no good that can come from it. Anyway, I can handle bad things happening to me, but seriously this last week has been ridiculous, first I got broken up with. Then I spilled water on computer I'm renting and already can't afford to be doing anyway, then it seems all my past mistakes were like outed to my friends (virtual, but still important to me I f**king hate when I tell people this story and they say "who cares, they're just on the internet" like they're still human beings and I'm upset that I had to hurt them. So I basically lost almost everyone I talk to on the net, it's really stupid like I befriended someone they all hate, whatever. Thats what triggered them telling like all my secrets. The stupid part about all of this is I was trying to better my life right before this weird chain reaction. I'm 21, on unemployment so I logically finally pushed myself to apply for college, and now it's like the counselor is messing with me trying to sell me on the idea too hard, and I'm not even sure shes gonna give me the leftover money from the loans I took out to buy a car and a computer. She's making it sound like it will be whatever the financial aid will pay and then the rest in stupid loans even though I opted to take out the limit of 10 grand. Anyway I've just reached this point where I feel like I just can't do it anymore, one problem hell even two are do-able, this isn't. I've been drinking a lot to deal with it too, and that's not good. Any logical advice? Oh please be nice too, I was a little afraid of posting this LOL.

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  • boopgirl17
    13 years ago

    No, I'm not gonna be nice. You need to suck it up and deal with it. It does no good to lament and say "Oh, poor me, wah, wah, life's not fair." YOu know what does work? Doing something! Go to college, study your a$% off, get a part time job, and stop with the drinking. That never helped anybody. Get a new attitude on life. I know you can do it. And you've got guts for trusting weirdos like us to give you advice.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    If you don't like the councelor, try a different one. You'll know when it's a good one. & maybe try ant-depressants?

    I really don't know.. Good lck, <3

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  • ruralfrights
    14 years ago

    It's normal sometimes to focus on the what isnts rather than the what isz. Murphys Law is a law but it doesn't apply to everone all the time. If something can go wrong, it will, but maybe to the neighbor, not you this time. It's not lurking over you waiting to screw up your life. I tend to get discouraged easily. No matter how many things I found right in my life, there was always one negative that more than offset it. The only solution I know of is to consciously start changing your thoughts (rainy days are a good time to catch up on paperwork rather than I hate rainy days). As you work on your thoughts, then change your actions. Do this long enough and you'll notice your beliefs are changing as a result, which, finally, change your attitude (this is everything!). You won't do this perfect nor consistently, but pause a couple of times s day and try and find another way to look at something. Many Blessings

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  • ChocolateBlues
    14 years ago

    well..u wan nice comments ? well ..heres one o.o

    IF UR LIFE IS REALLY THAT !! "THAT" BAD this post would already be deleted by admins,developers by accident or what ever >~< and if ur that BAD u would be dead~
    life has a reason~ live with it, live in it
    life is so short, why hate people
    life is so short, why hate urself
    xD

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago

      well thanks for the comment, but I don't hate anyone and I agree with you, life is too short. A lot of the problems in that post resolved themselves, so I am making progress. Thanks for the post guys they really helped.

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  • WayOutThere
    14 years ago

    Winston Churchill once said: "A pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty."

    You've hit rock bottom, and lost everything, so to speak.

    That's an opportunity!

    You now have a chance re-build your life, without the hindrance of existing friendships and relationships. You've made mistakes in the past, and you have learned from them. You (hopefully) know what you did wrong.

    You can now make new friends--carefully choosing them--and find a new girlfriend, if you want. You have the freedom to mould your life as you wish, being careful not to make the same mistakes you made in the past. Your new friends don't need to know about your past mistakes.

    Stop drinking, go for a walk, reflect upon what you want to do, and charge forward. This is the start of your new life.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      14 years ago

      thanks that meant alot

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  • Gtown
    14 years ago

    Well damn..... life really sucks for you right now huh? Its ok though it all about ups and downs and right now ur just in a REALLY low point lol. I lost a loved one and got broken up with all in a couple of months and that really sucked but I bounced back and am doing fine again. Just hang in there. Oh and I know what you mean about internet friends I have at least one that I got to know pretty well and I never thought that could happen.

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