He just wasn't that into you. Try not to take it so personally. If he said the the affection wasn't there for him maybe what he meant was that there wasn't any spark there for him. Just try to forget about him and move on with your life. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
I know it's hurtful that he blocked you on social media, but it sounds like you were being obsessed and stalkerish. I know you don't want to hear this, but "NO" is a complete sentence. He told you no, and you weren't able to accept it so he did the next right thing for himself.
If he wasn’t into me why did he flirt and buy me things on the last date?? He even said I love your company I love spending time with you, we never get long enough together etc. I think y affection he meant hands on but he didn’t take the lead either. I’m not obsessive I was hurt and would rather be told there’s someone else than my head being fucked with.
Just feel he thinks he’s found better or she’s easy or something so he’s jumped ship.
He even said if the time was different I’d make you my girlfriend without a doubt
I'm not a psychic so I can't read his mind. Have you ever heard the old saying, "actions speak louder than words"? Don't trust his words, but believe his actions!
He was probably lying to you. The thing about liars is that if you confront them about their lying they will just tell more lies to cover up the original lies.
Also a lot of codependent people are afraid to be totally honest and upfront with others, because often times the truth hurts, and those people are afraid of not being liked, because they hurt someone. I just try to pay more attention to what people do than what they say. Also I try not to get too attached to anyone when we start dating.
Everyone remember the guy who didn’t want a relationship?
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He just wasn't that into you. Try not to take it so personally. If he said the the affection wasn't there for him maybe what he meant was that there wasn't any spark there for him. Just try to forget about him and move on with your life. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.
I know it's hurtful that he blocked you on social media, but it sounds like you were being obsessed and stalkerish. I know you don't want to hear this, but "NO" is a complete sentence. He told you no, and you weren't able to accept it so he did the next right thing for himself.
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If he wasn’t into me why did he flirt and buy me things on the last date?? He even said I love your company I love spending time with you, we never get long enough together etc. I think y affection he meant hands on but he didn’t take the lead either. I’m not obsessive I was hurt and would rather be told there’s someone else than my head being fucked with.
Just feel he thinks he’s found better or she’s easy or something so he’s jumped ship.
He even said if the time was different I’d make you my girlfriend without a doubt
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I'm not a psychic so I can't read his mind. Have you ever heard the old saying, "actions speak louder than words"? Don't trust his words, but believe his actions!
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I know thanks for your advice ! I just think he’s left me for her that’s all!
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Maybe he did? Trust your gut instincts!
He was probably lying to you. The thing about liars is that if you confront them about their lying they will just tell more lies to cover up the original lies.
Also a lot of codependent people are afraid to be totally honest and upfront with others, because often times the truth hurts, and those people are afraid of not being liked, because they hurt someone. I just try to pay more attention to what people do than what they say. Also I try not to get too attached to anyone when we start dating.